This for those who hate liars ....:/
By earnalot
@earnalot (60)
India
May 23, 2011 1:30pm CST
Every one hates being lied , but some people those who are actually genuine to everyone , It's hard to accept that people do lie .
and such honest people do get hurt easily every now and then .
have you ever had such experience that just a lie did cut you deep inside ...
5 responses
@foofermen (500)
•
23 May 11
I don't think you have to be an "actually genuine" person to be hurt by a lie. Even liars have feelings. It's not real black and white for me, but I feel that what separates a "liar" from someone who lies on occasion, is the frequency and intent. There is no scale or model so the word liar gets thrown around a lot. As a general rule, I try to lie as little as possible, but there are times when a situation calls for a lie. People are human. Try to empathize with them. Use your imagination.
If you think about it, it's kind of like a pencil. Inherently, a pencil is used to write or draw, both good things. However, in the wrong hands, a pencil becomes a weapon. I feel it is the same with lies.
Good luck!
@misterMR (796)
• Philippines
24 May 11
I have and had experienced it when I tell lies. I feel uncomfortable and I know that I am doing a really bad thing. But there are times (quite rarely to be precise) when I do not want to tell lies and I straight-forwardly tell the truth, without any regrets. 
It's really sad sometimes too.
It's really sad sometimes too.
@allknowing (137769)
• India
24 May 11
With this I am having lesser and lesser people in my life because I am no longer comfortable with them. No deal really. The less the people the less worry to handle them!
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
23 May 11
A lot of the time, we come to the harsh reality. Eventually we're going to have someone who really lies to us for whatever reason. There are a million reasons, a million excuses for a person to really lie and all of them are extremely frustrating. Yet there are going to be people who are going to lie and it is going to really cut deep. It is something that really does hurt and it really does tear away at us. When it happens its not fun.
Trust is such a hard thing to earn. It is the easiest thing in the world to lose. There are going to be times where something that is built up over a number of years can be destroyed in a number of seconds. It really it sad but sadly not unexpected. It makes some people jaded and a little guarded to who they trust. In fact, I would have to say that there have been times where I have burned and it does stick with your for a long time. Its really unfortunate.
