Do you think my girl friend would not interest in me?!?!?
By lou_is
@lou_is (665)
India
May 23, 2011 2:18pm CST
Friends, while beginning of our love it was so nice. Whenever i call to my girl friend she use to come to the place and whenever she calls me then i use to go there. But now each and every time i use to chat with her, i have to call her but she won't call at all. Even at the weekends i need to call her and ask her to meet in some other place. If i didn't call means she won't bother about it just she keeps silent and won't call me up for out to meet up!!!!
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5 responses
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
23 May 11
Hi,
it is really depend... if you dont think it is a good sign then you should have to talk to her and ask what is going on. There is no one could answer this question, unless you talk to her. Good luck
@lou_is (665)
• India
23 May 11
Friend regarding this issue i have spoken so many times but she has not replied even once. Whenever i asked about this issue she used to escape by saying something about some one and she will say only one thing "I am not neglecting you but situation is like that". But it is not a first time, from past one month she is doing like this.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
Hm... This would depend on the situation. It could be that your girlfriend is betting a bit cold towards your relationship since everything's getting monotonous. Maybe she's looking for something that would spice up your relationship or she wants to do something to bring the old feelings/spice back. How long have you two been together? I mean, if you guys have been a couple for a long time, she must be getting bored of the same routine. I would.
If you really cannot bear with it, then why not try talking it first with her? I'm sure if you send her a message with something like "Are you available? We need to talk about something important", I think she'll reply to that. Try talking it out. You might say something like "She won't reply" but at least you tried to talk to her. Make sure to make your request seem "Real Important" or at least, ask her where she is then surprise her by appearing without letting her know. Ask her friends where she is and just go to her without her knowing.
@gmkumar08 (396)
• India
6 Jun 11
It's ok.One fine day,she gets to know about your feelings and she will definitely change.You just keep waiting for that day.And remember,true love always wins.All the best.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
22 Aug 11
For me it is almost obvious that in a certain place in our perception, somewhere, closed off and hidden, there is clearly the intensity of passion between two people. Therefore, unique moments of the two protagonists, between two actors at a time when inhibitions are uncovered in places where perversion loses its meaning and definition changes when the speech seems more real than, there, in those moments cumulative the particularity of a case where lack of interest in the conduct of common everyday is already visible, I opened my eyes and I preferred solitude. For the moment.
@jameygc (452)
• United States
5 Jun 11
I think all the relationships have to constantly fight with something called "routine". When the relationship falls into a routine everything seems going apart. You know, I don't think You have to carry with all the weight of the relationship, but if it really important to you, you could make some changes to see what happens. I don't know. Change the routine, go to different places, be spontaneous with her, surprised her! If after all you don't see any change on her, talk about it. Pay attention to what she says and make your own decision. Good Luck!
