Love marriage Vs Arrange Marriage. Which one is better.

I can't still believe how many medieval customs are still carried over the years up to theses days. It's a shame that someone else decides with whom I will have to marry. I and no one else has the right to decide what to do with my life, and who to date and marry eventually. Arranged marriages were a way of impossing the "authority" in the days that men were considered the owners (and not partnerts) of the women, and they decided everything about their lifes, just because they are of their possession. Now, I'm sure that most people believe that women are people like men, and as such have the right to decide when and whom to marry, for whatever cause they feel. I think my response is quite obvious at this point. Love marriage is THE only and unique way we have to marry. Choose just because you want to marry, because you love him/her , and you have confidence.

This is a famous topic given by me in engineering colleges for group discussion. You will have a good number of people talking in favour of arranged marriages in Tamil Nadu and in Karnataka you will have more people talking in favour of love marriage. It depends on the living standards and culture prevalent. Of course you are right in your way. My experience has made me feel that whether it is love or arranged marriage there is an element of uncertainty in that becoming a success. Many arranged marriages are successful. similarly many love marriages are successful. Depending on our fate the boy or girl starts loving some person who is bound to cheat or put the other into difficulty then it becomes a complicated issue. For my age --I will recommend arranged marriages with proper enquiry and after understanding between the couple.