Fa,ily always comes first for the help & not the friends

@sriroshan (2585)
India
May 24, 2011 7:30am CST
Whenever we are in trouble or in need of something it is the family member we come forward first with the helping hand. Since not a most of the time in this world no one wants or like to see that their other family member is in trouble (there may be the exception to this Rule). Many time we talks great about the friends and rely on them that they will come to help us when we are in need, but hardly one percent friends come for the help but family always comes first to our help.
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@amitgune (877)
• India
24 May 11
Very true, your family shall stand up for you first. However sometimes friends do support you even if family does not, such situations are rare and I have been very fortunate to have two such friends, one of them is no longer on this planet but the other one is very much with me even now.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
24 May 11
I do agree with you in this connection but very few friends not even 1% comes forwards of their own to help you out
@amitgune (877)
• India
25 May 11
Agreed. 1% is a big thing, if you get 1 friend in a lifetime who would come to your help first, you must consider yourself lucky.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
Yes, which is why family is always more important than friends. We grow up with our family and we are very lucky to have them love us unconditionally. Only few friends would really stick around in the hard times, so we should cherish our family more.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
4 Jun 11
You are very much correct and those who knows the important of family will never leave their family
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
25 May 11
hi sriroshan, blood is always thicker than water even if it has cancer.. goes the saying. family will naturally be there always for a family. its the natural way. if it doesnt, then they are far worse than enemies. when all your friends have left.. count on your family. one or the other, they will be there to lend a shoulder and to make you feel better. have a nice day. ann
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
25 May 11
I do agree with you 100% in this connection and we all knew it is family that comes first then anything else in the world.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
24 May 11
Your family is your family no matter what your lot in life. friends can be more choosing in their relationships with you. A friend can let you down. adter all you are not related. Family support and bonds are some of the strongest we will find in our lives.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
24 May 11
yes my friend after all family is family that we should never forget in pur life
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
28 May 11
I don't quite agree. There are times whereby we turn to friends for help than family. There are some things family are left in the dark, so that they need not worry too much about us. When i'm in trouble, i don't turn to family, i turn to friends. I know if i were to tell my family, naggings will be ongoing, never able to have a peace of mind. That's the very last thing i ever wanted when i'm feeling down.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
28 May 11
But my friend we cannot wait for friends helps always because many times it looks ashame or akwards for asking the helps from griend
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