Friend or not?
By maximus1985
@maximus1985 (55)
Romania
9 responses
@granny2011 (167)
• Romania
26 May 11
If a girl leave me for my bestfriend, first I smash my friend eyes, than I send my girlfriend to cyber space :)
@Roopjyoti (101)
• India
25 May 11
You are lucky Man! Why this is usually not happens with me? Now it's the time to breakup!
What to do? Are you mad?
Wish him a good luck for second-hand?
And you should look for something fresh. It's the time to refresh!
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Oh, treat it as their loss and your gain. You gain because you did not waste your time for an unfaithful partner, it is their loss because your friend lost a good friend and your girlfriend a very suitable and ideal life-partner-to -be. Don't feel sad, life is good for you for having more time to spend for yourself and with those who really care and love you!
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
25 May 11
i'll just think that it's not my loss, it's hers. of course it's painful, but to avoid depression and such ;like i'll just stay in the positive side. i'll immediately start working on myself, recovering, moving on... and starting a new life with out a best friend and a girl friend but with many lessons from that experience. i'll just hope that later on she'll realize she made the wrong choice.
@rosie14 (80)
• Philippines
25 May 11
ouch! that hurts! I think your girlfriend made a huge mistake, or maybe she's not that sensitive enough to your feelings. If I'm in your girlfriend's situation, if I did fall to my boyfriends best friend, I will choose to let go the both of you. Its better that the three of us get hurt, than the one suffering.
I think your girlfriend didn't love you as much as you love her, because if she doe he will stay with you than to be with the other guy. As for your so called best friend, I call him "so called" because if he is your real best friend he will never do what he does to you, ditch him!
Just move on, because I believe that when someone leaves us there is someone who will come much better who will love us more than the one who leave us.
As for your friend, I don't think the trust is not that strong anymore. You can be friends but not for now maybe soon when you totally move on.
Don't curse them, but wish them the best. I know you hurt but you will be okay.
Time heals all wounds, and everything will be okay, just charge it to experience.
Good luck and do still believe in love...
@ordinarygirl88 (175)
• Philippines
25 May 11
If that happens to me, I would go talk or ask my girlfriend why she did that... What makes her flirt others. Is it my attitude? or is there something wrong that she's not satisfy with? who flirt first?
I will know first the reason why she did that.. and if she have a valid reason like its because of my attitude or I'm barely seeing her because I'm too busy...well, I don't have a reason not to let go of her.. But, what she did is wrong and I'm the one who's going to break up in our relationship.
and to my best friend, hmmmmmm I will kill him, kidding! at the mean time, i still can't forgive him on what he did to me. it takes time to heal the wound but i know someday i can forgive him he's my friend afterall. because for me, Friendship is more important than relationships..
@himzey (1321)
• India
25 May 11
actually if u have a best friend of this category.. then certainly their is something wrong with you.. either u r fooled easily or... u r too open to every one, which again means u do get fooled easily by people around u...
well then ..only got one thing to do..
wish them a happy life together..
n will never ever see their faces in my life again..
shut close myself totally from others n work on myself so i wont make more fun of myself..
@purplebette (42)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Oh ... I'll just let them be ...
1. the bestfriend is not really a bestfriend
2. the girlfriend isn't really worth it either
at least now you know who your real friends are ....
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