Having kids

I don't have kids, as of yet, but I still want to have some. I really don't understand why some people don't want to have kids, thinking about the environment and other stuff. I think its the way you teach your children, how you handle them. Are you the one in command or the other way around. Its really depends on the parents/parent.

I have one. He's still a toddler, and to be honest, it's exhausting. It's overall been positive, but some days I'm very tired. We waited a bit longer to have children, although in my city we're about average for the age of having our first child. So we already did lots of fun things like going out with friends, trips, that sort of thing. It's also hard not having any money because we have to save up for his education, plus he needs a lot of things. I'm glad we did it. I'd do it again.

Hi Delicious,Am a mother of one child a boy an he is Five years old.When i have my son i was 21 years old,it was a wonderful time of my life. I was having doubt too,after finding out i was pregnant with my son i was the happiest woman in the world. The environment may be bad if you want a child you should grow that child the way you want. It is a blessing to have kids,they are expensive but wonderful.Now am married an i want to get pregnant again so that my husband could be a father. now my son is five,he make me smile every single day of my life.Yes he give troubles at times but i still love him. A lot of people don't want to have kids because they say kids are big responsibility an kids are expensive.But if you really want a child think about it.being a mother is wonderful.

Hi delicious: At this moment of my life I would say that I prefer not to have children because the environment they have nowadays is difficult, they have so many bad influeces outside and even if you give them good education this won't guarantee anything and I don't think I don't have the skills and the authority to guide a boy so instead of being a bad father I prefer at least for now, to just don't have kids. ALVARO

I have two of them and can't imagine my life without them. Though it was quite challenging, I have to say that once you have them we put forth all the effort required to raise them right. I do want to add that if you have absolutely any doubts then do wait until perhaps a bit later or it is also okay not to have them because there are some people who prefer not to, and there is nothing wrong with personal preferences.