For some time single.
By Delicious36
@Delicious36 (190)
Netherlands
May 25, 2011 4:19am CST
Hi mylotters,
For 5 years Iam single and for you to know I love my life how it is. Iam not searching for a love of my life and I just see how it developes. But Iam wundering I see so many woman out there are seeking an husband and changing themselves for a guy. Iam nothing like that, I think you should be yourself in your relationship and why should someone change for another person. Evryone is different so there is someone their for evryone. I heard so many times why I dont have a man and if Iam lonely. If I say that Iam realy happy they all laugh at me. What do you think about that? Do you believe you should have someone to be happy? For me Iam happy already and are happy with myself. This I want also in a relationship, just to be me myself.
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4 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
26 May 11
Being in a relationship is an absolute preference. I know some people who cannot be without a relationship while I know some who want a long term break and want to be alone.
It is whichever makes the person happy. 
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@Delicious36 (190)
• Netherlands
29 May 11
Hi Hardworkinggurl,
yes your right about it. It all relies on the situation your in.
Evryone has different needs.
@goldenPlanet (328)
• Philippines
25 May 11
The best relationship one can have is his or her relationship to oneself. Only when you achieve this, true love will come in your life....
I am blissful to read what you have share here Delicious36. May your message inspire more people and see the true meaning behind Self-Love...
@Delicious36 (190)
• Netherlands
29 May 11
Hi Goldenplanet,
thank you for the comment. I think self-love is realy important thats the only way how I can be happy and the rest will follow.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
25 May 11
I think there are women who can be happy being alone or with out a partner in life. They can be happy because they have found the source of happiness for them. Some are still on search because they have not found their source of happiness. Stay happy and blissful and who knows, love may smile at you and give you some soft pat there in your heart. It is really wonderful to have someone to share your life with but if you are happy for your present status, then be it...stay happy and be glad!
@Delicious36 (190)
• Netherlands
29 May 11
Hi Ednareyes,
Thanks for your comment. Yess I am happy with myself and if I meet someone than its ok if not its also good. I hope I succeed in being happy.
@paopaolar (226)
• Philippines
25 May 11
I envy you for being able to stay single. I haven't been in a relationship as far as I can remember but I still want to be with someone to grow old with and spend the rest of my days with. It does varies from every person.
@Delicious36 (190)
• Netherlands
29 May 11
Hi Paopaolar,
Yes evryone is different and want other things in life. The situation is that you have no one and in the mean time you can enjoy yourself and maybe you can find the one. If you want love you must show love, so start spreading love. You will attracked it then.
