How to Get a pure relationship that never falls?

India
May 25, 2011 10:14am CST
Just a few days back, I have got a proposal for a life time relationship means marriage. Although, I have not decide to get involve in this time. Yes, this is not a very serious matter. But the situation made me very uncomfortable. When it is a time to take such a serious decision, it really very hard to find, what i want, what i love or what makes me happy and a lot. What subjects matter in this time, any idea Please?
1 response
@umabharti (3972)
• India
25 May 11
hi, i understand.Men and women when bound in a relationship for a long travel that is marriage think a lot on it. Sometimes girl thinks a lot compared to man., as man is a person who just skips off things fast.He just leaves everything before marriage adn get settled well. Think ,you might get the answer for u by urself.Pure relationship come from purity in oneself.So u knw much more about u ,talk to the other person so that u might knw something about him/her. Sometimes marriages happen without giving a chance to anyone to think just happens .Sometimes iwth lot of thinking and knwing the marriage happen. Good luck.
• India
25 May 11
Thanks for your valuable advice. But you cannot make a clap with just one hand! You better know about your purity and feelings, but what about the feelings that never fits to each other. Sometimes, only one have to manage his feelings but the another don't want to compromise at this time. So, do you think that for a long time relationship, only self purity is sufficient. Should some one instantly take decisions? Ofcource not. Don't you think that a mental satisfaction is most important in all the areas of this life? Anyway, in this matter, what will be your first point of choice?