woman insecurity in life.
By cora30
@cora30 (134)
United States
May 25, 2011 4:59pm CST
Woman had a lot of insecurities in life,we always wanted to change everything if possible ,needs to improve body's,in fact others find it attractive,needs to get slim because your gaining weight ,sometimes i just cant fathom why we woman as part of who we are cannot just take and accept for what we are as a a human being/person,we are always not contented as to what God gave us......But Oh well,it come to my conclusions that insecurities is something that we have lived with it,its part of our life and basically its something like a struggle for us woman that we need to fight for it everyday.:)
7 responses
@CandyRayne (458)
• United States
25 May 11
Yes you are right abotu the struggle in everyday life. It's like one day you are happy with yourself and confident then something or some one can bring that all down and make you question your self or fell lesser. I struggle with this myself, more so years ago than now. Altho I am married now and maybe that reassurance from ym husband has kinds cooled my doubt in myself.
@cora30 (134)
• United States
25 May 11
Hi candyrayne,yea your right too ,we lived everyday and we always have or find insecurities within us,and this is the one thing that we really need to fight for daily.its like a battle.that never ends.but dont you worry im sure whatever yyou feel about yourself i know that your kids and your husband is always there to support and love you:
@CandyRayne (458)
• United States
26 May 11
It is always helpful to have the support of loved ones when in a rut!!
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
27 May 11
The feeling of insecurity is there in every living thing. Yes men also have it. Men have different problems like managing family budget, managing with bosses, managing with in-laws, managing desire to be good to all--may be list is not complete---
@maezee (41988)
• United States
26 May 11
Nice discussion. I hate to go on a soapbox rant here, but it sucks being a chick! Of course men also face insecurities and have to deal with them, but I feel like 'appearance' is considered overly important to TOO many young women, old women, young girls (!!) out there, and society and certain men in our lives just don't help that obsession any. Gah.
@figurativeme (1089)
• Philippines
26 May 11
When I was in my youth, I did have a lot of insecurities. Nothing in me was right and I always wished to be like someone else. I have outgrown this and have learned to accept who and what I am. Gained confidence and felt better, too. Although I still have insecurities but I have learned how to deal with them and not let them spoil my day or outlook in life.
But I think, this happens to men as well.
@feeltheirie (301)
• Philippines
27 May 11
We tend to idolize the "perfect" women we see in magaziines, television, billboards etc. Not realizing that those women are all edited to look perfect. We get envious and we seek all available resources to achieve the perfection that we see. I don't think it is bad to want to improve oneself. It is okay to want a thin body as long as we attained it in a healthy way. It is okay to want to be attrative but not to the extent that we ruin the body that God gave us.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
25 May 11
As a woman, I have ALWAYS been VERY secure in just being myself!!! I believe that if you don't like me just like I am...then you don't like me & it is your loss as I have a LOT to share!!! If you aren't willing to see what I have to share, then you don't deserve it!!!!
