saying goodbye??

hello saphy, We can have a bottle of vodka if you want There will be no easy way to say goodbye because seeing someone leaving or saying goodbye brings heartache and sadness even it will be have a positive outcome. happy mylotting

dear saphy, I don't like that word...i seldom use that word. When someone is leaving,i don't say goodbye but "take care" "see you again". Even with chatting...i don't say goodbye.... the moment i said "goodbye" it's the end of it..... so i seldom/rarely use that word...because it's really means "end" for me,no matter how it hurts. There is no easy or lighter way to say that word...but,i still prefer to say the word rather than hanging someone in mid-air.

Goodbye temporary or goodbye on a permanent basis ... goodbyes are normally for a little while , like two people in love needing some time together to sort their thoughts out and come back stronger. Just like the story of Duke and Duchess of Cambridge. Broke off , said their goodbyes only to come back together in full swing and then get married. Perfect. But goodbye without a word , that's a bit hard to swallow. But if the person's not worth the wait , then the goodbye shall be permanent. Like you said , who cares anyway.

If someone has hurt me I will never, let me repeat never say goodbye as time alters situations, dilutes situations and gives time for repentance which will either lead to a reconnection or not at all. It will just fade away.

Hello saphy! As we all say, there's no easy way to say goodbye. So just say it! Yes, it may hurt someone but we have to say those words rather than hanging people around. But hey, it's not the end of the world. We have to let go of the past and move on... Be strong, though it can really be hard at times. We have to! Go on and move forward with a smile...

Hello my friend! In my opinion, if you will leave a person without clearly explaining the reason, it will be unfair to him/her. The task of being a forecaster or crossword puzzle solver is really difficult. For me, it still better to discuss about the problem and try to solve it with the persons mainly involved. You have to know his view and his reaction to your plan, coz he might not like it and he might have a good solution to suggest, which can lead to reconciliation and prevent the "goodbye" to pursue. Do you really need to say goodbye? Just think again. I am hoping that it can still be prevented and be reversed. Good luck and hopefully everything will be fine with you. Take care!

Generally, I find it easier to shorten to 'bye.' Or just a slight motion of the hand like the start of a wave, both these require very little effort all the best urban

It all depends on the connection. If you Once loved this person ,and you Still respect them, then a face to face meeting is mandatory! If you have lost both love and respect, then just call or text. If you fear they will be violent, call on a wired phone, I mean a phone that is rigged so you can record the call. But waiting for a person to read your mind isn't the way.

You care Saphy, because if you didn't, you wouldn't be asking

Hi Saphrina Not sure about others... but there are a few whom I will always care for and will not want to hurt them. Sorry, I did hurt a few days back but hey, that was not GoodBye.. just a break from starting discussions... I will still prefer to let my friends and well-wishers know that I am or will be away for a while as if I do not do that I am sure a few will miss me, worry about me and my well being. I remember your discusions where people are left in hanging situations - unsurity and that is more pain staking

Wow Saphy, ignoring someone for weeks with the hope that he/she understands it's over is mean to me. While expecting others to read our mind is weird unless you are a mind reader... Just say it truthfully and get it done quickly, is what I would do...

I guess it depends why you are saying goodbye. When I eventually cash out here I will simply go away.

No time to talk. We use to kiss your lips only, although we love as a calendar, at fixed hours or in short, more rapid and predictable. When I kiss you do with selfishness, not because you want, but to not miss you later, not knowing you look out the window like I was kissing in the rain, under the narrow roof or delay. Are part of your digital calendar, I own and reminder alarm on Thursday at two. Share time with another birthday and a simulation, you divide yourself between as many messages and dedications diluted. In fact we both diluted until only traces paths kept vague that I ever stepped synchronously. Are fragmented book label and dedication on the first page header works, identity documents and messages. I need to gather in the evening from all over the room and reassemble on the pillow before I sleep. I do not have time to be a single man, I have not even time to be in all day Thursday in your calendar. Maybe it's time to amputate my identity. Adieu.

goodbye isn't hard to say for that reason ... who cares anyway and who knows you have little control of others , let it go / it's not farewell everytime goodbye is said , if it is like that, I'd be more dramatic. It hurts the more you try to bring someone back to life - in a way

This is a hard question. I guess its more like I just stop talking to them. And Un inform them by not talking or just being to busy. I guess as I have gotten older it really isnt something I give much thought to. But I used to just not answer their calls. And always just be to busy.

The difficulty with saying goodbye comes when we are very attached to the person we are saying goodbye to. It is always sad to say goodbye to people we like, but the mind is able to adjust in time. _Derek

sometimes goodbyes have two meanings so i was taught that farewell and so long are better breathers

Sometimes I think the best to say goodbye to someone is to find the right moment of time during talking to that person and take the initiative that is take the first step forward and then say goodbye to that person in a polite, humble manner but directly representing to that person and not beating around the bush.

Saying goodbye is the hardest part in a relationship to happen. You cannot avoid to hurt both parties, either ways of saying goodbyes still hurt someone. It is easy to say we don't care about other's feeling but still both of you suffered inside. But we have to accept freely in our mind and heart that in a relationship this is really happens so just think that you are not really meant to be. Just think of may be a better guy is just waiting for you or her out there. If you are brave enough to face the other party you can say your goodbyes face to face or if you think that you can't face her/him its better to say your goodbyes in writing.

goodbye problem has also been my issue since I arrived in US to study last year. I have met so many nice people here. I'm sad to realize that I may never meet them anymore when I finish my study in the next 4 years. some of my good friends here are also Asians. even though my home country Indonesia is close to the countries where they come from, I know it will not be easy to meet them again because we will be busy with work by that time. I will feel more sad to leave my good American friends, because US is very far and it's not easy to get the visa. so far, I decide to just say "see you again" to them when we have to separate in the next 4 years. the words "see you again" somehow gives me faith that one day I will meet them again. I believe it.