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then I guess you should help her to loss her weight..that would be one lovable experience for her and one sweet memory for both of you. help her out..

That's too sad for her. Please support your wife. She can wear bikini that cover her stomach. And tell her that many women don't be sad to swim even they are 80kg!

Aww...I hate to hear that your wife felt bad about herself. It's hard when you are used to wearing certain things and then other things change and make you feel bad about yourself. It is nice that she has you for support. That usually helps more than you know. I can tell by the other responses that you two have been working hard for her to lose weight. Perhaps you can convince her of the fact that you feel like she is beautiful and sexy just as she is and that a little extra weight shouldn't keep her from enjoying life with you. Good luck and take care.

Hahaha. I can probably relate to your wife. I feel self conscious about my body especially at the beach. The funny thing is there's nothing my husband can say to make me feel ok. If he says "you are not fat, you look beautiful in your suit," I say he's just saying that to make me feel good. If he says "you're right, you've collected a little fat around your belly and thighs lately. you should loose weight" I would be mortified! It's better that he doesn't say anything. Just initiate activities for both of you that can help her lose weight.

Hey there, As before try and help her loose the weight by suggesting activities you both can do together. In the meantime, might I suggest you take her shopping for a new swim suit. This way she can try on some really neat ones that are very flattering to her body. There are so many that are slimming in certain areas, such as skirted ones and one piece as well. There are some very pretty coverups too she can wear over her swim suit. Taking her shopping will certainly boost her in good ways. She can try several on and you can compliment her sweetly on some that she really likes. Good luck and have some fun, she should not miss out on having fun, especially when you are caring enough to share with her how wonderful she looks.

i think its a normal reaction of the girls when they can't wear the dress that they want to wear. I never try to wear swim suit in every swimming that i join because im a fat person and i have a lot of belly. I wish i also become sexy soon but its very hard to me because i also love eating.. My sister told me that its okay to wear swim suit even we're fat when we're in the beach because it is the normal attire of the girls if they will having swimming but i'm still shy to wear it.