Do you really have to be thin so that you can have partner in love life?
By Metatronik
@Metatronik (6199)
Pasay, Philippines
May 26, 2011 9:45am CST
Since I am watching TV I often see the commercials of Biggest Loser on abs cbn. However I am hearing the reasons that contestants are motivated to lose weight. Some of them need it for their health, while others need it for the application in abroad and most of all the self esteem and confidence when they lose their weight. However when I listened to a 22 year old woman while being interviewed she have mentioned that all of her friends are having relationship and she is only the advise giver. Her one objective to lose weight is to be able to find her partner for love life. I have this reaction that I am a bit disagree on it. Yes it is true we need to lose weight for health reasons and confidence but I believe to attract guys is not that necessary. Because in the first place finding love is not that easy and for you to become involved in commitment the assurance of acceptance and sincerity of true love must be considered as requirement. So no matter how ugly and obese you are because if the person really loves you then probably he will ignore your flaws. Unless if that woman wants to have a hunk hottie man then no wonder that she really need to lose weight like a model if she can be able to reach that goal. I have seen some obese women who are in commitment then so far their love life was good. They have to think as well if there are obese women then of course there are men as well. If she wants she could find someone that is bigger than her so that she may look sexy.
5 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
hi,
actually now a days male and female wanted to have a chubby hubby or partner,i dont know why,but i noticed today that most of partners are thin and the partner is chubby.so dont need to be thin just because we wanted lover.but being a thin or slim really make us fabulous.
@scorpio04 (84)
• Philippines
27 May 11
hi metatronik- for me i don't care if the guy don't like me if i am fat ..i want the guy even i am fat he is sincere of what he really feel special for me..yes you are right it is not the requirements to have a partner....
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
26 May 11
It's not impossible to find a partner if you're fat or ugly, but it IS a LOT harder. You have to ATTRACT a partner in the first place in order to have someone fall in love with you.
@jayen28 (84)
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26 May 11
Yah i agree with you.because the for me the inner beauty is more important than anything else and of course your devotion to your love once.
@thegreenestpasture (51)
• Philippines
26 May 11
While it is true that finding true love has no requirements, some cannot deny that first impression really is a big factor in finding that one true love. I for one believe that a big factor in having your true love is attraction. I believe it all starts with attraction and everything just roll from there.