Have you ever felt of pleasing other people?

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Sometimes having pleasing personality is really important and we should face it we need to please other people when it comes to facing the client. Even if they are already are already mad to you as hell but since you are talking about sales then you can't do anything because you have to kiss the @$$ of the client. But generally speaking have you ever felt that you are pleasing other people to the extent that you want their appreciation? Especially from parents, family and friends? Isn't that there is this saying that you can't please everybody so why are you doing that to other people? Why do you need their appreciation? Why do you want to be accepted to the circle of people so that they will become your friend? Even if they have already done wrong things and rejecting you already because they can't accept who and what you are why do you still bother to please them? In my own experience I just realized that this was my major mistake in my life. Well I think if I am on Venus Raj's shoes this could be my answer. I really tend to please everyone to prevent from the wrong things that would say about me. More so I want to hear positive remarks about me from them. But I am totally wrong as I thought it will happen the problem is even if I am helping them so hard they keep on being mean and some of my friends have cheated me. Even if I am already humble enough to stoop down to their level they are still having their pride to the extent that they are floating on air. Now I learned a lot and I am not doing that anymore as I don't really care what other people think about me because it is just useless. Because there are some people that if they have seen you are just a simple and normal person they will just ignore you to the extent that they don't want to accept you. But if you are someone that is famous with lots of money you won't be hearing negative feedbacks in front of you but the dangerous part their is that they would take advantage of you.