A $2 million engagement ring; Girls: do you want it? Guys: wanna spend for it?

@sweet_pea (3322)
Philippines
May 27, 2011 2:35am CST
I was TV surfing last night when I saw the news about Kim Kardashian's 20 carat engagement ring. Wow! I was so amazed how big the rock on her hand was and I was even shocked to know that it cost Kris Humphries, her fiance a whooping 2 million dollars.I heard she goes with a bodyguard now, walking with that ring on her finger. http://globalgrind.com/entertainment/kim-kardashians-20-carat-engagement-ring-photos 2 million dollars is a lot of money. But spending a lot of money on a ring and a grand wedding doesn't guarantee a happy-ever-after marriage, right? Ladies, would you want to have one like that? Guys, would you spend much for a ring to give to your beloved?
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30 responses
• United States
28 May 11
hi sweet pea, if i were as rich as Kris Humphries, yes, I would definitely give that expensive ring to my fiancee. for me, buying expensive things for my fiancee/girlfriend is a way to prove that I really love her. if I didn't love her, I would just buy her cheap things. I would not sincerely spend much money for someone that I don't love:)
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
For me, it is rude to take back something that has already been given. True, in most cases couples loses the spark when they enter marriage. I am one of those case. It seems he is just someone sharing the same house with me. We try to go on trips and even that would often end up in arguments. He is always busy with his job because he was bothered by the debts we incurred for our house. We are currently not speaking right now, because he has spent more time with making money than making time for his family. What would you do with so much money when you would lose the one thing that matters most. Sorry arnourdian if I am venting some of my life's frustrations!
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
30 May 11
She would love it (and hopefully she'll love you more ) when she receives it. But she would definitely love you even better if you are loving, loyal, honest and respectful to her in marriage. I don't know but some people change during the course of their marriage, suddenly the spark they had in a boyfriend-girlfriend stage is gone. So sad, but it happens. Would you take the ring back when the engagement is off?
• United States
31 May 11
hi sweet pea, from my observation to married couples, most of them lose the spark they had when they were still boy-girlfriends. i think it's the matter of how they add new spices to their relationship to refresh it. maybe doing new activities or creating new rituals maybe good ideas for the new positive climate of relationship. I would not take the ring back if the engagement is off, for any reason. because if once I decided to give it to her, I gave it sincerely to her. it's for her forever.if she threw it away or just didn't use it for having new better ring (maybe), it's her business. I would not take it back from her.
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• Philippines
27 May 11
It's sort of a fairy tale story but, if that's his way of showing how he really feels about his woman and soon to be wife, then so be it. It just so happens that the guy is so rich and can buy the most expensive of things. Since he can afford it then why would he be selfish to not give the woman he loves the best thing that he can provide. It's the same thing as when you do everything for that one special person by making sacrifices and all that. Each of us has his own way of showing and professing our love to someone. If by any chance, I get a ring that's worth that much, I would like it. Just being honest. But if the money used is like his or our supposed lifetime savings, then I wouldn't want that. I'd still go for practicality in the real world.
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• Philippines
31 May 11
That's a possibility, having to end a fairy tale marriage after a year or so of being married. But I guess, when you're rich, you don't tend to see such "waste" as a waste at all when 2 million is just a small portion of their wealth. We sometimes wish that instead of having to engage into such unpredictable actions and decisions and spending so much money, we wish that they could just hand it over to us so we can put them into better use. But that's the difference in our line of thinking. As for them, it's just money and they can have 2 million in just a day or two. As for us, we work hard for the money and so we need we tend to value our expenditures and earnings a lot more.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
So true. They can earn it anytime unlike ordinary people like us, who would still be working until we get old to even make 1% of what they spend on that ring. It just shows how life can be so unfair.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
30 May 11
The rich has really a way of showing their affection to their loved ones. But it is so often to hear news of rich and famous people spending a fortune for a one-time wedding and they would break up even before they reach their first anniversary. Don't you think it is such a waste of money? They are putting much effort on this engagement and wedding thing, but a little disagreement they would take the easiest way out and divorce each other. I guess money can't buy everything much more a happy marriage.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
31 May 11
One one hand , they can afford it why not ...on the other hand , 2 million is a bit ridiculous just for a piece of ring. So where do I stand on this one? In the middle ...if the marriage is happy then it's all worth it even the 2 million can't match. Congrats to her anyway ...Kris seems like a good fit for her ...
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
5 Jun 11
Wow , really ... now I know. Yeah , I hope it lasts..it's not about the ring that much , although those rings are really awesome..
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
Wait till you hear about the $5 million wedding ring of Beyonce. We sure wish them well. Hope they don't end like what happened to Eva Longoria and Tony Parker after just having one year in marriage. They ended in divorce.
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
30 May 11
Well, if I am rich and afford to buy that ring, why not? Since I am a poor guy and not afford that amount of ring...I'd be better to go on a normal way of engagement ring...
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
Yup! This is common here in the Philippines. Because ring is not an important thing in a relationship. With or without ring. If both the two person enter into a relationship love each other. No need for them to have an expensive ring or something...
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
But would you still give an engagement ring to your lady love aerous?
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
In my country, a guy can propose without a ring. It is common. It really isn't a big deal at all. What is important is that you love each other.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
I'd rather have a not-so-expensive ring and a grand house. I know they could afford those things, but, I just think that those could buy a lot of houses for some suffering people who don't even have a home. Or, imagine the number of people it could feed! I agree, it wouldn't guarantee a lasting marriage. I'd rather have no ring at all, and have a happy marriage, than the most expensive ring but a marriage that lasts a month!
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
I know! Been busy and will be busy for the next days to come! I guess you could catch up with my by then. Remember the new job? I'm having it WITH the old job. At least for a month until I finally decide which to let go. (The new one is a graveyard shift) As to the engagement ring with the house, well, the house could come much later, like a wedding gift, something like that. ^^,
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
You are working too hard girl! Having 2 jobs plus Mylot!That is way too much. You are really working hard for your rendezvous this August. Nah! I'd be busy a little later, cause today we start our month end activities. So I'm out at Mylot this afternoon. Geez! Take care of yourself Glorya. No use exhausting yourself on work, you might just get sick.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
Glorya, you are late! The classes started 4 days ago! So you want the proposal to come with a house? Nice idea, but not so unique. I recently watched the movie "Prada to Nada". It is about from riches-to-rags story about 2 former heiresses. It is a feel good movie. The ending was, the older sister got proposed to with a ring attached to a key to a house! That is such pure awesomeness!!! Anyway we usually don't fuss over engagement rings as it is so common not to have one for soon-to-be brides in our country. Still, it's nice to have a flashy bling, bling on our finger. Not too flashy to attract snatchers!
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
27 May 11
Unless I am filthy rich, I will not spend this sort on unnecessary money on an engagement ring. I don't think it is worth it. 20 carat ring is definitely a huge on and i think it would be quite heavy too. If i were to wear it out to street, i would keep worrying that i will lose it and eventually not wear it out. then, what is the purpose of a ring who stays at home? :) Furthermore, i think the engagement ring represent how much your other half love you and cannot be calculated using money.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
30 May 11
I just wish that if they put so much effort in buying such expensive ring, they would put the same or twice the effort to make their marriage work. I heard some celebrities wear a copy-cat of their rings in public and leave the real ones at home. How sad that they can't show them off as often as they like.
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
2 Jun 11
Yes. if the man would channel this effort in the making their marriage work, it would be better. There are just so many divorce cases nowadays. It's really a pity not to be able to show off their rings. What's the purpose of having such an expensive ring and not being able to wear it out after that. It will just be left at home collecting dust :)
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
At least in their case, the world got to know she owns such a ring and he can afford it. It really would boost their ego.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
7 Jun 11
Nope, it sure doesn't. No marriage is ever guaranteed, no matter how much the ring and wedding cost. And no, I would not want a ring like that...not unless I could sell it and use the money to buy things that are more practical, that is. I would never want something that valuable on my finger. Not only is it ridiculous to spend so much on a piece of jewelry, but I'd be too nervous to wear it! Thanks, but no thanks, I'm happy enough with both of my rings. And best of all my husband didn't have to pay an arm and a leg for them! Happy mylotting!
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
It is really not practical, but it is his money anyway. Maybe they are just living up to the celebrity status they are showing to the public. Still I can't help but think how such amount of money can be used for more worthy causes.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
29 May 11
I don't know....to each his own. I honestly think its kind of dumb to spend that much money on a ring. It seems to be more of a statement to the world than proof of love in my opinion. I don't have money so maybe my opinion isn't valid but to me it just seems like such a waste to spend that kind of money on a ring and a lavish wedding. I just don't see the connection with the cost of the ring and wedding to the amount of love....there is none. It all seems to be for show.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
I think so too. It is more of a statement because he is not marrying an ordinary person. He is proposing to a very hot celebrity. I don't think he likes that the media would tell news about a cheap engagement ring on Kim's hand. It wouldn't go well with their celebrity status.
@mindym (978)
• United States
1 Jun 11
I think this is another way to draw attention to herself. I probably will never see 2 million dollars in my life unless I win the lottery. But if I ever did have that much money to spend, a 20 carat ring would not be on my list of things to buy. Size and price shouldn't matter, but rather the meaning and sentiment behind the ring should be the most important. The size or price of the ring does not determine the longevity of the relationship, so I would not want my boyfriend to spend that much on a ring.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I too wouldn't even earn 1% of that ring's value in this lifetime, no matter how hard I will work for it. Love cannot be measured by material things and it doesn't guarantee a lasting marriage.
@Tonton01 (235)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
I dunno. This seems like a Facepalm worthy move. Meh, as long as you show appreciation and don't tweet it to the many people around her. She'd be fine.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
The paparazzi already told the world about her engagement ring, that is why she has a bodyguard to watch over her ring.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
29 May 11
I think this is another slap to the face of the poor people of the world. When there are so much poverty, and strife everywhere, these kind of people try and outdo each other is showing everybody how rich they are. Yes, it might be none of our business, but things like these shouldn't be leaked out to the public in the first place. They're just opening themselves to criticism. No, I wouldn't spend that much.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
We would have worked our a$$ off and not even get 1% of that ring's value in this lifetime. A lot of people would have benefited with such amount. Sometimes, the rich just don't know how to spend their money.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
4 Jun 11
Hi Sweet_pea, I would say a big No for such a ring. And I would never allow my hubby to think of it rather. I feel it is not needed to show the true love. As true love is no where compared to $2 million. True love is more valuable than anything else.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Yeah. I think you can do a lot more with the $2 million dollar than just spend it for a ring. So true. Love is priceless.
• United States
29 May 11
Hi sweet_pea I would only want it if my partner had well over the millions to spare for it. But personally no I would not want and or expect such an expensive and lucrative ring. Where would I wear it and be safe not to mention being afraid to be killed over it. I love my boyfriend dearly and whatever he can afford and get would be fine with me. See I love him for him and not for what he can or should get me. I would think the rent and bills are way more important then a rock sitting on my finger and or safe in which I could not wear just anywhere. lol
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
I think that is why she had her bodyguard with her, because she feels she would be a target of criminals who would take her ring away considering how the media talked about the value of her ring. Rich people just don't know how to spend their money when a lot of people would have benefited from it. If they could only share a meager of their wealth, they would make so many people happy and not just one.
• Malaysia
5 Jun 11
Yes i do love one like that. I saw how Kris treated Kim when she about to kiss him on E channel, you know what he did, he Burp in her face....Ewwww. Kris ring might not worth a cent if he keeps on doing inmoral attitude to one of the most beautiful girl in the world. Right Kim?
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Really?! That must be so embarrassing for Kim. And to think that it was seen on national TV.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 May 11
hi sweetpea lost my response copy paste. if I had 2 million dollars I wo uld buy a condo and keep the other million dollars tol live on., why spend that much on a ring when you cou ld have a home and money to live on instead.I would never want a ring that dear as someone would probably knock me out and steal it.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
30 May 11
Well those rich guys don't know how to spend their money. That money can go far for the less fortunate people. It can already provide a comfortable living for us who are not so blessed financially.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
28 May 11
That is way tooo much sweet pea. Engagement rings that costs that much cannot guarantee happiness in a marriage, often times too much money even gets in the way. These people do not even know what to do with their money that they spend it like that. Where in fact i know some people who do not have much, not even a wedding but are living happily as husband and wife. I would not ask my husband that much, as long as we are both happy then everything is fine.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
30 May 11
Yeah, money can't buy marriage. It takes a lot more than a fancy ring to make it work. Heck! I don't even have an engagement ring. It is not so common to have engagement rings in our country.
@manubla (472)
• Philippines
28 May 11
If we have a LOT of spare cash and won't go bankrupt after such spending, then I'll go for it! Again, as long as it's not detrimental to our financial independence, the go go go!
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
30 May 11
I guess they are that rich to spend it to a fancy ring. Although I cannot say that it can guarantee them an ever-after ending. It would have been nice to see a fancy ring on your fingers but it's not that nice to wear them in public. I just might see myself the target of snatchers,kidnappers or hold uppers.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
28 May 11
Two-million IS NOT a lot of money for him! That's what 'the jewelry purchase' says to me, anyway. Same with the expense of the wedding. It sounds/looks to me like Kirk Humphreys is saying that the $2,000,000 and the wedding-expenses are NOTHING compared to the wonderfulness of Kim Kardashian's happiness. Although ... aren't weddings paid-for by the FATHER OF THE BRIDE? (saying the same thing about Kim, just as a daughter instead of as a wife)
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
Really? I didn't know that. In my culture it's the other way around. The groom and his family primarily pays for the wedding. It would be a good thing if the bride and her family will share in the expenses. But nowadays, both parties usually spend for the wedding. I just learned he is an NBA player, so he can surely afford her to buy that ring considering the millions he get for playing in NBA. Besides, he would have to spend a pricey ring considering the celebrity status of hot girl friend Kim. He might be a laughing stock if he bought a cheap ring for Kim. Anyway, I wish them well. Hope they don't end up with the same fate as what Eva Longoria and Tony Parker did.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
28 May 11
Yes I would absolutely love to have one of those lol But I wouldn't mind a less expensive one if my other half won't be able to afford it!!
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
True. There are other ways of showing your love to your better half than giving material things. Money can't buy everything not even a happy marriage. It takes a lot of hard work to make it work.
@arshan18 (51)
• Philippines
28 May 11
for those who can afford it, it's alright if they would give their partner an expensive ring. but if the relationship failed, just make sure that you wouldn't be so sorry that you had given up a whooping 2 million just for an engagement ring. after all, marriage is not about the glamorous ring or classy ceremony. it's true that it would make your special day memorable but let's bear in mind that the true essence of being married to someone is the holiness and the loyalty that both of you had promised in front of God. it's on how you managed through the obstacles that we're given to you. let's just wish for the best for Kim and Kris.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
Well said arshan. There shouldn't be no regrets when the engagement would not push through. And the guy shouldn't take the ring back once it is off because for me it is totally rude to take back something that you already gave. I agree that fabulous weddings don't guarantee happy marriages.