Have you ever reveal your admiration towards your crush?

Pasay, Philippines
May 27, 2011 5:44am CST
[b]This is different from courting a woman to become your girlfriend in love life relationship. But then have you ever tried to reveal your admiration towards your crush? If that is the case then how were you able to admit it? If not then why are you hesitated to do that? [/b] I want to try but I can't make it because of the feeling that I would be having my inferiority that it has the possibility that my crush would embarrassed me if I do that. That is only my feeling but then I never really tried. My boyfriend have noticed it to me that even there is end of the world then I would never reveal it forever. It is alright for me if that person have noticed it or feel it but I just don't like the feeling that I should tell it.
4 responses
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
27 May 11
I guess I feel the same way as you do. I have never done it either, even if that guy admits that he has or had a crush on me. I still won't say that I used to or still have a crush on him.
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• Pasay, Philippines
18 Aug 11
I know that feeling because there are times that as a woman if we will be able to express our admiration towards the person chances are he will brag it to the whole world.
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
Yes, plus to me, it's like I'll never give him the satisfaction of knowing that I like him or that I used to like him. I especially wouldn't say how much I like him, probably not even to my friends.
@onque10 (110)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
I don't know if you consider this revelation. It was mu cousin you told him that I admire him. I was asking my cousin about personal details and the my cousin said, "do you want to know his number?". I said yes but I am in second thought because I still don't know what to say once I would able to give him SMS or call. But later on I got a courage to text him and he replied asking if I am the cousin of his friend. And I said yes. So I asked my cousin how come he know who I am and my cousin simply replied, "I asked his permission if I can give his number to you". So I asked again my cousin how did my crushed replied. He eventually asked why I am interested in having his number and my cousin admitted that I have a crush on him. Thru our texting time, I discovered that he eventually knows me. We were schoolmates before, in elementary. This was a revelation to me because I am not aware of his existence during elementary time. He was on his 5th or 6th grade while I was on my 1st grade. But I am grateful that he recognized me even just by name. Until now we are still texting from time to time, and I am calling him "kuya" (tagalog term for big brother) and he would then call me 'ading" (ilokano (a dialect here in Philippines) which means younger sister. Hehehe.. Oh, just to share. One time I went to our province to celebrate Halloween with my cousins (my crush lives there by the way and I am staying in the city). We were on the church when I saw him. They will sing basically. Then when the mass is over, I saw him going out of the church first. I thought he would go home but when we stood up to walk through the door, he was there, standing at the door and shaking hands with everyone going out the church. I was like, "oh my god!". Then we were almost the last ones to get outside the church and when I was on his front, he extended also his hand and greeted me. He said, " oh hi! Glad you were able to be here." I felt star struck because I was able to see him nearly and able also to shake his hand. hehehe..
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• Pasay, Philippines
18 Aug 11
Yes it is part of revelation as well. I am just curious that how come your cousin have told your crush that you admire him? What is her point. Good thing you were not mad to your cousin.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
hi, actually my friends do that revelation to my admiration,of course i cant reveal that on him my feelings,but when my crush already know that he is my crush suddenly my feeling will gone and i dont know the reason why i feel that way.maybe because i am totally shy because he knows what my feeling inside.
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• Pasay, Philippines
18 Aug 11
Oh probably you are in love with your crush. Too bad other people thought I am in love with my crush but honestly it was just a pure admiration. of course I have control of that feelings.
@kumakuma (84)
• Malaysia
27 May 11
I'll never reveal my feeling towards my crush. Until now, I think he never know about my feeling towards him. Besides he is my best friend. So, I think the situation will be a bit awkward if i express my feeling towards him.
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• Pasay, Philippines
18 Aug 11
I understand your situation the fact that you are female it is already in our culture male must be the one who is courting us and in other terms they will be the first one to express their feelings. If other males are shy to express to girls of what they want then how much more with females. I haven't experienced that, as much as I want to do it when I was in college but then there were many obstacles like people are harassing me about my admiration to my crush. So better yet that I would be the one who will stay away.