how do you deal with your partner during a love quarrel?
By arshan18
@arshan18 (51)
Philippines
May 27, 2011 1:25pm CST
in a relationship, it's normal to have misunderstandings. so how do you deal with it?
personally, i am analyzing the issue. if there are sins committed, an hour or day after, it would be forgiven. it sounds strange but that's how our relation's been going for the past year. it serves as a lesson because it is not being repeated. we are not abusing the chance that has been given by both of us because we both know that it may come to an end if it is being reiterated. and i can proudly say that we are are learning from each other's mistakes. we are not taking those mistakes as a reason to broke up and end our relationship. as she says, "it serves just a thrill and obstacle."
2 responses
@angelmoonlyt (103)
• Pasig, Philippines
27 May 11
Well, we have different opinion. My husband and I don't want any arguments. As much as possible, we avoid it. Yes, it is normal and I agree with that. However, we believe that once you and your partner had an argument or quarrel, it will leave a bad mark to your relationship.
@arshan18 (51)
• Philippines
27 May 11
learning from the experienced ones. :) honestly, i'm a just 19-year old guy. right now, we are also avoiding any argument to lessen the chance of separation. because as you have said, it leaves a bad mark. so thank you. and best wishes to your married life. :)
@ordinarygirl88 (175)
• Philippines
30 May 11
Yes, misunderstanding is normal to a relationship and you should deal it seriously.
Last 6 months, Me and my boyfriend were having this serious fight and what we did was that we talked half day to get things done. Talking is great.
I am not the type of person who would let my pride controls me. I want a peaceful relationship.