What was your room like as a child?
By JenInTN
@JenInTN (27514)
United States
May 28, 2011 3:36am CST
I was thinking about redoing my youngest daughter's room. She has kind of outgrown her current decor and needs something a little more mature. She has a pretty bedroom suite that's very light whitish pink with hearts carved for handles on her dressers and nightstand and has had it since she was 5. She has pink curtains to match..suddenly..she's out of the pink princess look...lol...she is fixing to turn 13. It made me remember my room as a child which was nowhere near as nice and coordinated as my daughter's. Mine was very basic but I do remember choosing a sky blue color once to paint it in. It really looked like an adult's room other than that. For a long time I had this toy box my grandfather made for me, but as I got older, that moved out too.
What was your room like as a child? Was it a child's room? Was it painted a neat color?
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49 responses
@SViswan (12051)
• India
28 May 11
Most of the years, I had to share a room with my sister...when we stayed at an apartment. It wasn't really a children's room and since we are 7 years apart, no theme would have worked for the both of us. We had more functional stuff and had more of wood laminate that gave it a co-ordinated look. We had a bunk bed that could be separated and used as single beds when we wanted to. We had twin study tables and as I grew older, I got a computer stand too. A whole wall was dedicated to a wardrobe that we shared....it was big enough that we got separate cupboards each and one common cupboard for things that we shared. We also had a dressing table that we shared.
When we were in India, we had a huge home and separate rooms. The rooms were really big and more of an adult room. But we had a huge study table each and beds with lots of storage. We had a creme wallpaper with simple designs.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
28 May 11
My boys are 6 years apart and they have separate rooms..though we stay in an apartment. The younger one has red and blue theme in his room. He has two cupboards in red...with a racing car theme. The walls were a little peachish colour when we moved in...and with the rest of the accessories it doesn't look girlish at all. He has a little study table and a colourful alphabet mat.A red racing car bed continues the theme on the cupboards....a little study table and red and blue curtains with trucks on them completed this room. The dressing area is simple with a mirror on the door and shelf on the wall.
The older one has a blue and yellow theme in his room. This room earlier belonged to the younger one and has winnie the pooh and mickey stickers all over. We've been meaning to pull out the stickers. The walls are blue...cupbords (built in wall cupboards) have blue and yellow laminate and yellow curtains. He has a study table and a queen size bed in there. The room also houses all his musical instruments.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
My girls are 5 years apart and I understand completely what youa re saying about the theme thing. When they were alot younger..they shared a room too. I had them bunkbeds too. We always run into the problem of room cleaning responsibilites when they shared..lol..they would both blame the messes on each other. I just made them both clean it..arguing the whole time..lol.
Your boys' rooms sounds very nice. You must have put a lot of thought into them. I want my girls to have nice rooms too. My oldest girl went through this neon green stage and wanted to paint her room that color. I negotiated with her and left it white with a ton of neon green accessoried that could be easily changed..lol...curtains, lava lamp, bedside lights, storage boxes and picture frames..neon green..lol.
My little one just wants away from the pink..lol.
Thanks for the response!
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
28 May 11
ha ha..I remember blaming my sister for the mess and she would blame me. We would also argue over clothes that were borrowed and then not cleaned!
Earlier...the blue and yellow room belonged to the younger one coz it was bigger and I felt he needed more place to move around...also coz blue is his favourite colour (now green is his favourite colour! along with blue). The older one's favourite colour is red and so he had the slightly smaller room with the smaller bed but more storage area. The younger one didn't want to move into the red room despite his favourite racing car theme ...and then we got him the red and blue curtains...with the trucks on them and he agreed. The older son also needed a bigger room to keep his instruments.
Now both the boys are happy :-)
Keeping the walls a neutral colour and bringing in colour with accessories is a practical move. It's easier to change accessories than to paint the walls.
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@locakai (166)
• United States
29 May 11
My parents were cool about me having my own space. Although there were rules. I couldn't paint my walls, but I could have designs post, poster, drawing, pictures, and letters on the walls. When I turned 15, I asked my parents if I bought my own paint, as long as it wasn't a dark depressing color could I paint it. They agreed. One side of the room with the window, I painted it a deep blue with the glow in the dark stars, the other side was a meadow, with the sun rising, and I was able to still have my posters, letter, etc.. on the walls. I added a desk, a bookcase, took the bed out and put it in the guest room, and got me a futon. I made my room my space. I talked to my parents, they gave me advice, and told me what they liked or didn't. I did some work for neighbors, stayed after school to help with tutoring, and even babysat for the money. As long as she has some say of the room she might even tell you what she likes, and go from there. Who knows maybe you and her can bond over setting up the room, and just have fun with it.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
29 May 11
Yes! That's what I let my daughter do...it is her space so the most I do is help her get stuff and offer up some advice when asked. She got very creative in fixing it up on her own and I have to say her room looks very cool. I do a lot of painting and decoupage so I do help her out but the ideas and creativity have to be hers. She is not allowed to paint the walls. Other than that it is her creative space. You can walk into her room and it shouts of her. I just go along with whatever she wants and I try to help as much as I can with the costs of things. She works and does a lot of the stuff on her own. I do a lot of painting and decoupage technices and so have alot of materials right on hand for her to work with.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
28 May 11
Dear friend,
I did was not having a seperate room may until I was about 14 years old. Ater that myself and my sister was in one room. When I reached around 15 years I was given a seperate room that too when we shifted to a new home. But there was not much to say on my room it was a room painted while one bed my books no any much things there. Moreover after I had been 21 years I had gone to college hostel.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
Hi Shamrack! If you don't mind my asking, how long does one stay in a hostel? There isn't much to say about mine either except for that paint I was allowed..lol.It really didn't match another thing in the whole room but I wanted it really bad.
Thanks for responding.
@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
28 May 11
You know.... I don't know what my room was like when I was real young. I guess back then we didn't think about what was on the walls, but what was in the toybox.
I do remember what it looked like as a teen, though. I painted the walls a light purple and my mother found a great comforter and curtains to match with purple flowers. Then I found an old metal (huge) office desk for $10 and I painted it a gorgeous color of purple. It was awesome!
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@mindym (978)
• United States
28 May 11
When I was younger than 13, I remember that I had a canopy bed that I loved. When I outgrew that stage, I was able to decorate my room as I wanted. So my walls were pink, but the walls could not be seen because they were covered with New Kids on the Block posters from magazines. Oh, I think I am aging myself now. Once I got out of that phase, I feather painted my room and it looked more adult like. Now that I have moved out, my old room is a tv room with neutral colors. My room has definitely been through a lot.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
Yes...it sounds like it has been through a lot. My oldest daughter has a ton of posters on her wall too. It wouldn't matter in the least what color it was painted either.
It's great that you got to express yourself with your room. I like the feather paint look. I bet that was really nice.
Thanks for sharing your room and all it has been through..lol.
@original8 (107)
• Belgium
29 May 11
Oh dear god thats a long time ago hihi ^_^
But i remembered that in my room was a posted of Pokemon and Spiderman :D , 2 huge posters at the white wall :) a large closet at the end of my bed, my room was also colored with Light Brown and White combined, honestly didn't liked it :( ^.^
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 May 11
I moved to the attic when i about your daughter's age. I loved it altho it was 'nothing' fancy it gave me some privacy.i plastered elvis pictures all over the place & things like that. Wrote everybody's name on the wall[dad wasn't too happy about that, lol]. i just loved it.I never was to girly girl & still am not. I think my house is real pretty , i have some beairtful glassware if i do say so myself.What does your daughter want? That's imprtant.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
She really justs wants something a little more "mature." I think the pink is what she's most tired of..lol..she has always been a bit of a tomboy. She wants a book shelf and a desk..other than that, she hasn't really been very helpful. Her birthday is in July and I thought it might be nice to do her room up for her.
That attic bedroom sounds really neat.
I bet you do have beautiful glassware. It takes a professional eye to know what's what and you certainly have that.
Take care and thanks for responding.
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@much2say (55901)
• Los Angeles, California
28 May 11
Oh gosh, I remember my childhood room so well - even though it was very simple. My parents still live in that very same house - and as we're local, I can always see it (although it became my sister's room eventually and I got the "office" room next to it). My bedroom wall color was always the same as the rest of the house - that off yellow type color. I had a white wooden bed - nothing terribly fancy - and I remember the candy hotpink/reddish bedspread on it. I had a child's wooden rocking chair in it plus a toy box. Oh, I had a child's table with chairs - but back then the set had a heavy marbley table top with metal legs (and metal backing/arms on the chairs too). There was a white dresser that my aunt gave me when I was born - but that my daughter uses now. I had curtains but can't remember what color it was. I remember putting stickers on my closet - I can't remember if they were cereal prizes or if I got them from those coin vending machines - but they're still on there - hee hee!! Yep, my room wasn't coordinated like the kids of today!!
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
It sounds like you had a very charming room. My room wasn't coordinated either..it had normal wooden dressers and a queen size bed..my grandmother slept with me forever..lol.
Both my daughters have a thing for stickers too! They sticck them on their head boards. I don't like it..but it's their rooms so I allow personality. I will have a mess cleaning her suite up to sale though...getting those stickers off won't be easy.
My grandparents really didn't have the money to "dress" my room up as a child..but they tried very hard to give me things I loved. I was unicorn crazy when I was a kid so they were always buying me unicorn knick knacks and pictures for the wall.
Thanks for sharing your childhood room with us!
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@sender621 (14893)
• United States
28 May 11
I was not a neat child with my room. My room was always so messy that my mother used to say it looked like a tornado came through my room. i did learn some better cleaning up skills later.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
I am a lot more tidy now than when I was a kid too. My grandparents never really made me clean my room..they did it for me. When I got older and got my own place, I too learned better skills...alot better. I actually clean on the side now and am very picky.
Thanks for sharing and take care.
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@speedytypist (571)
• United States
28 May 11
She is blessed to have a wonderful mother like you. Pink room is always a first choice for the princess..hehe..hhhmmmm...how's my room looks like when I was a child? Honestly, I don't a room when I was child. I sleep with my brothers. If not, I sleep everywhere carrying my own pillow and blanket everyday. To my grandmother's, aunties and cousins. That's what I missed in life. To have an own room when I was a child. Until today, I still don't have my own room where I can paint, decorate and out stuff like I want. As of now, my husband rented a room in a cheap pension house for me to sleep and live comfortably. I am wishing to be with him soon, maybe that's the time I can have my own room and will decorate it. I am so excited. If I have a chance to have a room when I was a child, First choice I want it to be pink everything or Tweety motif.With a closet and a big world map in the wall, study table, of course bed and all decorated with pink materials....
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
Thank you very much..it is kind of you to say that. I didn't havw a fancy room when I was little and I guess I wanted to give them that. Maybe the pink was a little over the top..but she just recently said she didn't like it anymore.
I am sorry to hear you didn't have your own room. I hope that when you are with your husband and you have a room to decorate, you will have the most beautiful room in the world. You deserve it and I do so hope that it will be yours.
Take care and thanks for responding.
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@Bellapop (1279)
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28 May 11
Why do you ask your daughter, because it will be her room and she has to sleep in it every day certainly don't want her to wake up in shock every day particularly if it was done in a colour that she hated. Your daughter is so lucky to have a man like you who will think about doing up her room being considerate about style and colour. I never had that choice we moved into this house and my room is the colour of whatever it was only moved in and has stayed like that until I was 22 until we moved to a new house and I finally have my own room and have the choice to decorate it. Being 13 is still very young and I'm sure she would still appreciate all the pinks and white I certainly do at my age! It's best to talk to her directly rather than asking them here, perhaps you can get catalogues all research on the Internet for pictures of goods interior design ideas. Look at them together, most importantly your daughter has the final say and choice. Hope this helps.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
Hi Bellapop...yes..I am leaving her color choices and such up to her. I am her mother so I understand how important having your own space is. She wants to get rid of all the pink..lol..she thinks she is too old for it.
It made me think about my room when I was a kid and I wondered what everyone elses rooms were like when they were little.
I am glad that you are able to decorate your roomm the way you want to now. I think it's important to have a place just the way we want it.
Thanks for the response.
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@craigy123456789 (1759)
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28 May 11
Hi JenInTN,
When i was a child i was always given the smallest room in the house. There was my mother, my 2 sisters and me in a 3 bedroom house, my 2 sisters are older than me and so i got the smallest room. I just had a plain room in the early days, i had blue paint on my walls as i never wanted any wallpaper. Later on i then found a wallpaper that i liked, it was marilyn monroe, although i was young i thought she was amazing and i wanted the wallpaper, well i got it. I also covered my school books in this paper. I was always very tidy as a child and i still am now, my mum never once needed to clean my room as i always kept on top of it. I guess for me i just always loved a plainly decorated room that was always clean and tidy.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
That sounds awesome actually. I like Marilyn Monroe too. It's great that you were neat and tidy. When I was little, I never had to clean my room..I was spoiled..it was tougher on me later though. I wish they had made me..lol. I make my girls but they are not naturally neat at all. I have to get after them sometimes..lol.
I think that neat and tidy is better than decorated actually.
Thanks for sharing your room with us..I bet that wallpaper was really neat.
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@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
28 May 11
When I was a little girl, what I like for my room to look like was to be surrounded of color pink and surrounded with Barbie designs and Hello Kitty! I wanted to see them on my wall always. as I wanted to be like and feel young! I wanted to be Barbie! :P
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
Hi edsss!
I guess I had in my mind that my daughter needed a princess room...she is a tomboy though so pink is not working out..LOL.
Barbie has been a huge influence on little girls. I used to play with them when I was little.
I had a fascination with unicorns when I was a girl. I had a ton of them.
Thanks for responding!
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@rhannealmoite (338)
• Philippines
28 May 11
When I was younger I use to put anime posters in my room.My parents also allowed me to choose my favorite color, they've paint my room BLUE.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 May 11
MIne was wall papered but I didnt get this room till I was 12 I think after daddy built 2 more rooms on the back of the house.
I had thoer furniture very sturdy.
and on my closet on out side Pictures I had drawn and dady put plastic over them to keep them fresh.
Later it became my sisters room I was gone when she was born.
and later it was the guest room .
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 May 11
Oh..I like the idea of the plastic covered pictures. My daughter is very creative and is always drawing or writing stuff. Maybe she would like to have some of her own stuff on the walls too.
My oldest will be 18 in September and as much as I would like to believe she will stay around a while, I am thinking that the b/f she has right now is going to steal her away as soon as he can. I hope she continues to want to go to school and puts that on the backburner for a little while though.
Thanks for responding Lakota
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 May 11
13 is Bat mitzvah age so Mom, let her pick. It can be fun, you two can make a date to search out the colors she is into and let her pick. Granted you Will have to say no if she wants Purple walls but.. besides that let her pick. Ok. I Had to say it.
My room remained the same from age 8 til 2005! It was All red. Red carpet, red curtains . White walls But then I stopped liking red and I moved, So in my new room it was blue based.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
Yes..purple walls might be a little too much expression. My oldest wanted neon green walls at one time.. I thought I would nver talk her out of that..she went with neon green curtains, lamps, frames, and storage boxes..lol..
I think you are right about the fun we would have if we went shopping together for the stuff.
Wow..that is a very expressive room you had. I'm glad you got to do it. Alot of people never get to do the colors they love.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 May 11
It was? I had no ideal. I was the youngest. By the time I came along , mom and dad had some money. But I Had no idea that my childhood was far different than my sister's. Well I'll tell you I kept the same carpet for over a decade! Now I'm in a wall to wall carpet place and my color is blue.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 May 11
My dream room as a teen was red and black..lol..I could never talk my grandparents in to that one. They were my highschool colors.
I love blues. I have hardwood floors that I wouldn't trade for anything right now. I like carpet, but with the dogs, hardwood is more soothing..lol.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
4 Jun 11
i don't remember a room being a big deal when I was little either. I do remember going through periods of wanting a decprated room though. My neighbor had a beautifully decorated room. I remember not wanting to touch anything when I went over to play..lol.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 May 11
Hi areous..no..let me appreciate you. I think that children need a room, but there are times when parents can not give that no matter what they do. I have been poor..my children had to share a room at one time. I think you have every right to be proud of who you are and where you came from. We are sometimes stronger for the things that we do not have.
Thanks for the response.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
28 May 11
Hi JenInTN
Up quite early?
As a kid, I had a room that I shared with my granparents and it was not that greatly painted as the rooms are now a days. It was just plain white coat. But yes, it was a big room, quite spacious.
The better thing was that I did spend so many great years in that room. The nights were really great as I was narrated so many good stories from my late grandmother, the summer vaccations were great when in the daytime, we (me and my grandparents) used to play Bridge, Carrom and even Chess). There were large windows that really let the warm rays of sun enter the room during the chilly winter mornings and days, and there was plenty of greenery around outside to keep the same sunrays light during the summers.
Today, we do not have that house and also it is difficult to get such a room in the moderninzing and growing jungles of concrete... Miss my room
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
I am always up early...I just can't sleep in..even when I don't have to work. I might have a nap later though..lol.
I shared my room for a while with my grandmother. I used t have terrible nightmares and she would sleep with me most every night. I remember it had a view of the back yard where my swingset and the trees I used to love to climb were. They were chestnut trees and those burrs were terrible on little feet.
I miss my room too.
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