Our relationships are constantly changing - for the better or worse...

Hi kiran ! "Change" is a necessity, to deal with different situations we come across in life . You become wise and matured, with each and every second in your life, than you were moments ago; even if its 0.01%. Well, at least we do try, not to repeat the same mistakes again. Improving and maturing yourself with each and every second, you enhance your thoughts and ideas about life,.. develop new ones,.. and expand your horizons each time you do so. This whole experience is dynamic and never ending, and it continues with your existence. It shapes you, and makes you what you really are, ie to say, this is from where you gain your "identity". Your interactions too;(be it with anybody), change, with the situation's demand. Every time you sit back and think about your relationship with your family members and friends, you set your priorities (for time being, though), by judging them, on the basis of these interactions.. //Being angry with your dad or mom over something, is a perfect example of it. The obvious reaction from you is to stop your conversation with them and ignore them. This works only for a few days, though; and then you get back normal (cuz, thats what the situation demands from you; or who else is going to pay your bills..lolz)// ..This gives new direction to our relations. Well, most of the time, it is positive and makes our bonds even stronger, while sometimes you may get those undesired results. Just gotta remember two things, "Time heals everything; well almost".As time passes, everything comes back to normal;even you do..lolz And have faith in yourself and "keep moving forward". Happy mylotting.. :)

hi Kiran madam, money will spoil the relationship of even mother and son, wife and husband,brothers, sisters,so until money enter in relationship,we are happy when it enter we have to forget happiness in that relationships,so i does not caring of relation ships, may be it may brake or more strong,have a nice day

Hi Kiran! I think it is money which changes relationship now a days with close relatives. People who acquire wealth whether legal or illegal, they feel that they have won everything and they start feeling superior to others. Their ego gets inflated and they fill with air of false pride. Now a days People are forgettting how to maintain good relationship with relatives and be humble. The feeling of superiority makes them aloof from others. Nuclear families and working couples also fail to maintain good relations with their relatives due to lack of time. Deepak PS - pl. check your mail.

This is a good topic. Not many people like to talk about family matters but it's actually simple to work out. For my perspective , the way I see it , first and foremost I held utmost respect for the elders. They are namely my relatives parents and the more senior , the more respect I should have for them. After that , their children ...grandchildren and all that. Everything should start with respect. And with respect it means all the good and flaws that they have we should be ready to go through. However , that does not mean that we can step on one another knowingly and unknowingly. Because it will only further destroy the pure color of what's already there. I mean , why dampen something good right. But I always steer myself from hypocrisy and one thing's for sure , I want everybody to get along together. I don't know how others feel about this but that's what I do. I don't care about negativity , never have and never will. This can sometimes be mistaken for being a hippo(cryte) as I jokingly like to say it , because then people don't see why you can be close camps with both sides which perhaps are not that close to begin with. Everybody have their own unique sides. Like for example , A can be close to their dad's side and B can be close to their momsie's side. It's all in good hands and as long as the respect is there , who cares if who is close with who. As long as the boundary is not crossed over like for example I will never insult my uncle or aunt ... like I know they are sick an inner example will be Uncle Joe has a heart attack. Now I wouldn't make heart attack jokes just because I don't get along so well with Uncle Joe's son or daughter. That will only dampen everything that has been built by the uncles and aunties. I mean , they would want everybody to get along , so we should continue the legacy. I have always been honest with myself and with others and it's a trait that either people can accept or not. But at the end of the day , I know I'm true to myself and that's all that matters. Good topic here kiran. If you want respect , give respect to others first. Sincerely..[b][/b]

Hello Kiranji, Change is the rule of nature, nothing is constant. We cannot satisfied all. And we also not satisfied with all one. This unsatisfication is the main cause of our worse relations. When we expect more from our relative or friend than it is also a cause of worse relations. When priorty changed than it also affect our relations. As for me I am not in main stream for last 15 years so I have much contact with friends and relatives. But it is my opinion if our relations worsened with any friends or relatives than we must not close doors to reinstate relations.

Kiranji Change is a must for going stady. In most indian families there is bitter relationship between the daughter in laws and the mother in laws, my sugesstion is just remove the 'inlaw'. problem is solved. my daughter in laws call me as 'maa' not 'sasu', they are 'beti' for me, not 'bahu'.. Thank you so much for sharing Namastey. Kalyani

This is what we call LIFE my dear..nothing remains the same,,it is true that you do get some satisfaction that you have friends,,at least more important in my thinking is that 'Let me not make the relationship worse from my actions or words.Be good to everyone you meet,,yes we do have problems where we get attached to material things like house etc.but do not worry,, have faith.

Kiranji namastey I say, now i am passing through the 'BEST' phase of my life, yes there is minor difference of opinion with kids, wife Kalyani, daughter in laws and very close friends, it is natural, they add spice to life, we must take things light. Thank you so much for sharing Enjoy life to fullest. Professor ‘*^Bhuwan^*’. .

well even though i am just 21 years old, i have observed that the relationships change with time. Actually there is a need to keep the relationship alive and best a person can do is to cheer with his or her friends, family and loved ones.....

according to what i have read, "there is nothing constant in this world except for changes." everything was bound to change and let's just hope that they would change for the better. you know what i mean? they should change in a good manner wherein it would be for the sake of everyone.