is there such a thing as loving him perfectly?
By cora30
@cora30 (134)
United States
6 responses
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
30 May 11
There is NO such thing as being "perfect"!!! However, if the two of you truly love each other, you should see the imperfections as being "perfect"!!! When you truly love someone, you can see the "imperfect" side of them & still see them as being "perfect" for you!!! Being able to overlook the "imperfect" side of your Honey is a measure of how much you truly love them!!!!
@latriciajones (846)
• United States
29 May 11
I think that you cant love someone perfectly. Noone is perfect and I think that when put someone up on a high peddle stool then when they let you down you are hurt, but i say its your fault becuase you are the one that thinks he is perfect not him. Dont expect perfect so when he does something stupid you wont be mad.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 May 11
Nobody in this world can claim to be perfect. To be able to attain perfection, we would have to be above all others and never make any mistakes. all that we can ask of ourselves or our partners is to love them to the best of our ability. if they see us as perfect, it is only in their eyes.
@lipstick2009 (1236)
• Philippines
28 May 11
I think it is hard to attain such kind of love for others and for me that only thing we can do is just give our very best to give love sincerely.
Yes I believe we are supposed to love the imperfections found in people we love.But a line must be drawn as up to where are we supposed to show it and give it.Cause we might be giving love that is just going down the trash can.
I would accept and love my partner is he is an alchoholic.But I would expect him to do some effort to change his bad ways.Cause if he doesn't it only means that he only loves himself and he doesn't care about "us".
I tend to be practical when it comes to love, maybe that comes with maturity.For I believe now that love must be a two-way traffic.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
28 May 11
Hi there,
Yes no one is ever perfect, as human we all make mistakes. Defining a perfect love is what we consider to be perfect for us as individuals and not by what standards other may state.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
28 May 11
I don't think there is anything perfect in life..except God. To strive for perfection is ok but one has to be realistic and know nothing will ever be perfect, so don't expect it to be.
You have a great point in saying love the imperfections in your partner. While we may not always like the imperfections, we can in most cases learn to respect and accept them.