How Can I Stick My **** At Home ???????

Hey Zed ! Now thats something hard to suggest. I usually dont have to fight hard to keep myself grounded. But, what works for me might be a torture for you.. lolz :p Of course, mylot is a good way of confining yourself to home; for a while though. Have you ever thought to "pen" your thoughts, experiences or your views about something. Maintaining a diary is really a good habit, and may keep you occupied and grounded for a while. I believe you are a thoughtful individual and your posts reveal your intellect. Certainly, you have a lot of thoughts to share about. Or you may start some odd job at home; search the net for some part time you can do from your home. I hope it works for you. :)

after years of being on the road because of my work, living in hotels and different cities... i am finally working from home with just an occasional travel. i used to think in the same line... how i would find myself home and not be out too much. now i got it but my family now wants me to go out and do something beyond the business. when you find yourself alone, what would you like to do best? i used to remember that you kinda liked putting something together in the kitchen... or perhaps it's just one of your old photos that i remember. some activities or hobbies at home that consumes time is anything to do with art (painting, drawing, photography, scrapbooking etc), home improvement (carpentry, interiors, gardening/landscaping etc), culinary skills (baking, cooking, trying out new recipes), and writing (blogging, making articles or book). you can do it yourself or have it done with somebody. if you like to watch movies or you have favorite shows but missed seeing them, you can get a copy and have a movie marathon at home. my friend and i once did that over the weekend, pausing only to take showers and a few hours of sleep. it was like our bonding weekend and we even ate while we watched. because we both knew, come monday, both of us had work and our schedules don't exactly match because i work daytime, she works the night shift. but hey, sleep is quite important for our health. i hope you don't neglect that just because you want to keep busy. the body and the mind both need to rest too. take care.

There's of course another way, best solution of it all. Stay away from home for weeks or even months. Check yourself into a real hotel or stay with friends, do a different routine from your usual. By the end of the week or month, u would be missing your home for sure.. haha =D Leave your comfort zone, which is your sleeping and eating place. When u have no place to call your own, u would cherish it more when u owned it again.. haha

Get a beautiful interior decorator to do your home..and pay her half the amount..she will keep coming every second day, keep asking her to change someting, and again pay half the amount...do that until you fall in love with her, get married to her, have kids, and grand kids..okies. Serious one..start an office at home.

You need to slow down. One thing getting married and having children is not OLD. It's part of life and sounds promising. Here, take this, that should keep you at home. Tie it around your ankle.

In an interest called "live my life to the fullest", I would not stay at home to live my life to the fullest, but I can perhaps suggest you to replace your stairs by a toboggan -- nice to go downstairs, a bit more difficult on the other direction, but a lot of fun --, full your bathroom with balloons, invite some friends for the weekend and put nettles in their bed... You can have a lot of fun at home, zed.

Hi zed, you should cherish your freedom while you still can and get more 'fresh air' outside the perimeters of your home. Once you have signed on the dotted lines, the scenario will change as you will be under the clutches of your madonna. Maybe the only way you can reduce your outdoor activities now is to learn to say No to some of the people who entice you to be with them. Spending a ME time alone at home listening to music is quite entertaining.

I have the BUSY social life disease myself, lol, so we are in the same boat. I guess it is good to have friends and lots of activities, but sometimes I'd like to come up for air and you know what I mean. One way I tried to "ground" was by planting a lot of baby trees and flowers, but then I have friends to look after them when I'm gone so I go anyway. So you see that didn't work. But there are little grapes forming on the grape vine I planted, so that is cool. I love to work with plants, but even they do not keep me home.

Hi Zed, I remember when I was young I was only home long enough to eat, shower and change and go back out again and my parents used to accuse me of using the house like a hotel, think it is a youth thing, in hindsight though I should have made more of an effort to stay in at least one day a week and enjoy some family time maybe watching a film and having a takeaway. Haven't any suggestions really other than find a good book which you can lose yourself in and stay sat long enough to read it or if there is a garden perhaps ask if you can have a section to grow you own stuff in, definitely bring you back to earth and ground you that one lol, some sort of interest though to keep you at home. Huggles. Ellie :D

You know, there is such a thing as being TOO busy! You need some down time, time where there is nothing to do if even for an hour, when you can sit at home and enjoy it with no obligations. People who are as busy as you seem to be eventually suffer health problems so you should think about slowing down. Set some priorities, decide what is really important to give your valuable time to. We only have so many days here on earth and should spend them wisely, stopping to enjoy some moments of solitude once in awhile and enjoying our homes. Otherwise we will have accomplished nothing here except being busy. And die early of stress.

lost my response grr grr hi zed do like hemmingway told a young would be author"son I sit the seat of my pants on this chair and do not leave till I have written for at least four or five hou rs. success does not just fall in your lap, you have to work for it." So make a s chedule and stick to it till you have accomplished whatever you want to accomplish Zed., Make it a thing you must do every weeek day for a certain number of hours and stick to it each day. happy sticking to it.

I don't know, maybe some home improvement work? Paint the place or something? Or entertain, have friends over more often.

I don't think I would worry about it right now if I were you. There will come a time when you want to spend time at home. Enjoy having something to do where you aren't at home all the time. There are already too many people who stay home when they get the chance..like me. I used to be like that, but I am happy when I get the chance to stay at home now. I still like to do things, just not as many and not as often.

Hi Zed Oh dear! Ok, get your office or work at home as this is the only thing that seems to interest you... Many opinionated their views of what you can do at home... but from how I look at things, you kind of have some issues with the word called Home Please consider treating a Home as a Home and not as a House. ps. not offence intended, just my view. sorry if I got it across with wrong words (as that is so normal with me)

For me, grounded means staying in the same city. LOL My little apartment is so tiny I want to spend as little time in there as possible. If, however, you have a nice place where you'd like to spend more time, do it! Set up a craft table, a jigsaw puzzle, a hobby room, a home office, any thing that will make your home more attractive to you.

zed_k4, I am sure your family will understand your predicament and that it is never your intention to treat your home as a hotel or temporal residence. All of us have our life to live and matters to deal which just cannot simply be done from our home. Unlike you, my job takes me away from my country and home most of the time where I am barely home for more than 60 days a year. So, you can imagine how I am going to be and feel if my family does not understand my work and me. Especially, my wife who is ever so supportive of my work and me. However, it is never a one sided affair, where I have to make the effort of keeping tabs with my family members and relatives by and large which over the years had been simplified by technology starting with our internet enabled smartphones to our computers. So, let me assure you that I know families involved will understand.

Get a kitten! Not a cat or a dog (which would need to be takenfor a walk) but a young kitten! You will have to go home to feed it and it will be so pleased to see you that you won't want to leave it there alone so you will stay in. If you go out you will discover on your return that it will have created havoc and all your papers will be strewn all over the place (assuming that they are not ripped to shreds ) You will not want to go out ever again - especially if you allow it to have kittens later on too

Or you could get a wife, stay home and NOT be bored, which would also go along with not sleeping and the petting zoo comment above .... unfortunately this could lead to the babies thing, though.

hello zed, that was my problem before and what I did I just buy a pc games in my favorite game store then I found a game SIMS 3 which is a one of the best game because you are just like interacting to real world though it is a game.. I hope it helps to your problem..

hello zed, I was been a busy bee before studies,gimmick,endless work,different activity I've been like this for 5 years until one day I get tired of the same routine I have asking myself why I need to do this if I can stop and pause for awhile. I realized even I am single I still have a family that I need to look and ask how are they there were times mom complaining for not seeing me for a day though we are living in a same house our schedules did not meet I will just kiss her on the morning and leave home when I got home she is already sleeping. Our house seems a place where I can left my things and sleep for 4 hours but now I appreciate it more because of my family that's why I don't bring my work at home at least I can spend time with my Mom and Sister . Put some scented candle on your room relax, think all the things you want to do in life put some music and take a rest for awhile. happy mylotting