My heart have been cutting.......

If you love some one and you want love in exchange than it selfishness. Love want sacrifice. Be happy in the happiness of you love.

if my heart is melting in the ocean of pain i will give my time to cry, but of course i will give time to analyze and learn as well. some people melt also with their hearts and i guess that i not good. communication also is important. you need to tell that person who cause your heart that you are hurt. he needs to know so that he or she an do something about it. when you communicate you can both think of a solution. give yourself time to cry, we are all human and it is natural to cry when get hurt but you also need to make sure you think of next steps on what to do after crying.

The majority of us have been there and have had our heart broken sometime in our life. I don’t think that the more it happens the easier it gets. The difference experience brings is that we at least know that if we do the right things in time our wounds will heal although I do believe the scars can be forever. It is life and it is through pain that we grow.

Hello Ramesh, it is not necessary to be sad. Our minds are conditioned to feel things the way we feel. There are other ways to feel the same situation. May be we can try that. May be we can tell ourselves that we've gained through this. And re-examine our relationships like that. I am trying one like that now. It is helping in a way.

Hi rameshchow Well, in simple words, some actions can definitely help get rid of the pain - did you ever try having a calm and healthy discussion with the people who inflict pain to your heart? I hope not or even if that attempt was done, maybe you didnt put up the 100% of you in that one... Go ahead, find a right time, right ambience, right mood, and discuss out the problems... Unresolved issues will always keep you on the thin lines and you will always bump to the wrong sides... It is your life, and your preference - how to make it - You are the best judge Good Luck.

im in the same situation. and honestly i dont know how to overcome that. it still bothers me a lot that he wasnt like i thought. i mean things didnt happen like i thought it would. but the best you can do is to get distracted with other things. and the most important is to accept that you can no longer do anything to have it back. if the person wanted you back he would look for you. and if he doesnt just let go. or you will just be hurting yourself. like me i dont want to let go and all these days i been hurting myself

Well unfortunately things like this happen and it does make you wonder why. Too many people, especially Men do not want to take Marriage as a vow unto god, and seek out others for attention sometimes even right from the start. Personally I think they never know how to Love or show Love and run scared from one woman to the next, and sometimes women do the same never counting the cost of others or their children.

When my heart was broken, I talked with my best friend at the time. He was there to talk to .

One simple example. Someone cheated you and you get cheated. So who is wrong here? the person who cheats you or YOU who gets cheated by the person...? In my view the person who gets cheated is wrong because because anyone can do anything and that is your talent or alertness to know about them and you have to come out of it or even if you face you have to win it..Above example, when the person is cheating you, you have to come to know that he is cheating and you should deny it or should stop him/her cheating you. Now tell me if the husband is showing interest on others means something is lacking in you to make your husband spend with you or showing interest.If you know what you have to do to make your husband bind, then you have to follow..thats it..!! Coming to college days, when the person you like is showing interest in others..there is 2 possible ways to recover..1.making him to like you ,2.leave him thats it..!Being with him/her and thinking that he/she is not liking me is foolish as its your fault to let him/her likes others... Last but not least "Give LOVE but don't expect in return"...makes some controversial to above explanation but the main thing you have to give your LOVE such that they should realize even if they didn't for sometime later... good luck..!

I understand how you feel. I was in this same situation once before. I gave my all to this one person and he disregarded it like it was nothing. he didnt care about my feelings. I loved him more than anything and I was very respectful of his feelings and i felt it was very wrong for him to just be passive towards my feelings. When you are in a relationship with someone that person is suppsoed to love you and care for you the same way you do them and if they cant then you shouldnt be with them because you deserve better.

Hiya Remo, What to we do to get over the pain in our Hearts? Eventually we will realize that we have to get on with life. No matter how much it hurts. Me neither I won´t share a Story here but I do know of others and after a long long time they eventually made up or broke apart and went their own ways in life. In particular I was glad for one Woman because that was not love they had between them. She was afraid of him and he treated her very badly too. More than once she showed me all the marks and bruises and I kept it a secret all this time. It still is a secret between me and her. I got to know about it because I asked her why did she always wear long sleeved tops and trousers in 40 degrees centigrade Weather. She is now free from him in one sense and I am glad that eventually she was able to overcome her fear of him and hop it right quick with her Children too.

Hello remo. I won't share, but i can tell you that being sad and getting hurt is part of life. Deal with it and get over it. There is no other way.

Hi Remo, Do I ever know what it is like to love so deeply and not be reciprocated. It is such a painful and hurtful feeling. But what can we do outside of allowing that life is not fair all the time. We simply need to allow time to heal our wounds. There are wounds in my heart that although are not fresh are deeply embedded and have continually hurt. Nothing but remembering to love my self and continually remind myself of my worth.

When your heart is melting with the ocean of pain then you should know you created that to be that way so that you could learn to only focus on what your heart wants and not others, because the heart sees everything as equal the mind does not.