How to move on from a painful relationship?
By mixyly
@mixyly (20)
Philippines
May 29, 2011 11:29am CST
It looks like that I want to have a new relationship but still I cant move on.I always make myself believe that I don't love him anymore but every time I do so, it looks like I'm just fooling myself.I'm always praying that God may help me because I know, it will be unfair to enter a new relationship but you don't love your partner that much. It seems that your just using him. What's the best way to forget?
3 responses
@kareemadivina (1230)
• Philippines
30 May 11
Let time heal all wounds. Take time for yourself and evaluate if you really need to move on or give your love a second chance.If you really love that person,why not give him a second chance.You're right it will be unfair for your new partner if you'll just be using him for cover up.If it's impossible,it's better to remain single for sometime and just enjoy the company of your family and friends.
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
30 May 11
I do agree with kareemadivina, There is always a second chance if both of you is deserve with it. Its all up to you if what will be your decision and choices of your heart. It depends on the situation. I will tell you that everything will be in a right place if one of you will work on it. If you feel that it won't really works at all, then let go of it if that would make you satisfied.
And you are true, this webpage would really a big help to those person who is in anguish as to divert your attention through writing and enjoying your thoughts whatever that comes up on your mind.
I'm happy that you appeared well. Stay happy and enjoy your life. :D
@thegreenestpasture (51)
• Philippines
29 May 11
Sometimes you need someone to make you forget all the pains you have gone through. I am not saying that jump into a relationship now. And I am not the best one giving you advice right now because my mind is also clouded due to a recent heartbreak.
I am not sure if that is the way to move on but I think everybody needs help, and someone can help you move on. (Am I making any sense? lol Don't try to take my opinion to seriously, as I've said, maybe my mind is clouded).
@mixyly (20)
• Philippines
29 May 11
I really understand you:)..Sometimes, I want to follow that way also but when I think about it others say that I'm just using other person in my own expense.Maybe they have the point but how I could I move on when I'm always thinking about him?Hopefully I can have the best way.Thanks!:)
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
30 May 11
Well, I experience that before. I feel very lonely and disappointed into my life. I almost killed myself but I think about God. He is my strong in what happen to my life...
I remember Job, life. He is very faithful to God. When Job, suffer from great disaster in his life. His wife that one who support him will deny him...But he is firmly believe in what God, does into his life...
