What would you put in a book about your life?
By GemmaR
@GemmaR (8517)
May 29, 2011 4:20pm CST
I often sit and think about what would happen if I were to choose to write a book about my life. I like to think that I would have many lovely things to put in it, but I'm not sure whether it would actually be of any interest to anybody apart from me.
What about you?
What would you put in a book about your life if you should choose to write one?
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
29 May 11
It would have been right if you had mentioned about yours first before asking others to tell.
However, on my part :
1) Childhood - age 1-7, 8-15, 16-20, 20-52. 52 onwards . I will segregate and write important things about me which may be of interest to people.
In such cases it depends on the publisher --if he can market it well then more people will buy.
have a good day.
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@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
It is good to make sections about different parts of your life; that way if people are more interested in one of your sections they can skip straight to it instead of having to read through it all. I also agree that your publisher is important, too. It could be the difference between selling 10 books and selling 10 million books, so you have to take care about who you sell it to.
I would love to be able to write a book that would sell lots of copies, but I just don't have the time or the staying power to be able to do this and still stay sane at the same time.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 May 11
yes. if u are not having time dont bother. U are doing work now because it pays u well than what u may get by writing. so do that. In case u are a famous person having achieve more then u cannot allot time, u can dictate to a machine, your steno can type hearing from that. have a good day
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
30 May 11
My life is very complicated and it has a lot of ups and downs. It started to become interesting when i was 13 and that's where i would like to start my story. There's a lot of drama and in fact mystery in my life and a lot of twist and turns as well.
At the age of 33, i think i still have a lot of things to look forward too. I'm still young and my boy is only 7 years old and i'm not sure what kind of troubles (if any and i hope there won't be) my son would bring when he reaches the teenage years.
I won't focus too much on the love story as my life has been full of sad stories it could make you wet your hanky.
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@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
Your life sounds as though it would make a really good book. Drama is key to any good story, and I think that a lot of people who write stories end up having to make up a lot of the facts because they don't have enough interesting things going on in their own lives.
I worry about whether people would find the "drama" in my life as interesting as I find it. It is interesting to me because it is significant, but I don't know whether or not other people would find it that good. I suppose there's only one way to find out; and that would be to write a couple of chapters of the book and see what people think about it.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
29 May 11
Writing own biography is no easy feat.It has to be real and factual account of our own life journey. The life account should be interesting enough to mesmerise the readers. Unlike fiction novels where the contents of the story are dramatized out of the author's creative ideas. If I were to write my own life I would have to highlight the interesting childhood I had growing up in a big family and later was send to a boarding school in a convent run by catholic nuns when I was 6 years old. It was tough life for me to be detached from my family at such a raw age but that period of stay did shape up my life to withstand the difficulties I faced later in my marriage. Wow....this is inspiring me to seriously pen down the paths I took to be where I am today.
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@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
It certainly isn't going to be an easy task to complete, however I feel that it is certainly worth doing, particularly if you've done a lot in your life that most people don't actually have any knowledge about. I had an idea that I was going to write mine as a series of letters to different people in my life who have affected me, hurt me, helped me, and made me who I am today. Although it might not seem like it, it is often the people who have hurt us who end up shaping our lives the most, even though we don't think of it in that way most of the time.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
31 May 11
haha =D I think i ever started a similiar post to this.. hehe ^_^ For me, everybody's life is just as interesting. No matter how boring or stagnant it is, there's always a reason to why they are leading their life in this way. Excitment lies behind what we see on the surface. For us to find out, we need to dig deeper into it.. lol =D I can say my life is interesting, though not as high profile or highly exposed out there. I like the way my life is, but not entirely happy yet.. haha =D Contradicting?
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
7 Jun 11
lol =D Yeah, there u are, finally appearing huh?? U do need many invitations before u show yourself again.. haha
I dun think there will be people reading our book except for ourself? EVen if there are people reading, they won't be going through all the chapters. After all, there are some point in our life, similar to each other.. haha =D Maybe u are right there, but then, if we are not happy, how can we like something?? haha
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
5 Jun 11
I think what you have before is about making a movie about one's life...hehe
Maybe you are right that everybody's life is just as interesting but I also think that it depends on who will be reading the book of our life...it may interest some but will bore some too! But one thing for sure, we will always find some lessons with each others life and experiences.
Your statement is not really contradicting...hehe I guess many people also think and feel the same way, because we still want to achieve something in our life and as always people don't really get satisfied...hehe
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
haha, not really, i am just having a very poor internet connection! hehe and being busy as well in watching some dramas...haha
hmmm, sometimes what makes us happy is that something that we like? haha
so like something in order to be happy! lol!
maybe instead of writing your life story in a book which appears to be boring to read especially if it has lots of pages, just show your life story in a comics, with nice illustrations!
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@NoWayRo (1061)
• Romania
29 May 11
If I were to write about my life, I'd probably select the high school years and write something funny - because those were really fun years, and I was surrounded by so many interesting people, who are now great adults, with good jobs and loving families. I think my life was not so interesting from the point of view of the events involved, but rather because of all the people who crossed paths with me.
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@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
Comedy is a key part to any book, and if you've had a lot of amusing times in your life then your book will be interesting and fun to read. High school was a funny time of my life, too, and I made a lot of friends during those times. However, I worry that a lot of the things that I found funny were the types of things were you really had to be there in order to fully appreciate how funny the things were at the time. I don't think that my readers would be able to understand where I was coming from if they didn't have that first hand experience of the event that I was writing about.
@lajonez (477)
• Poland
29 May 11
book of my life would be about trying to find love and happines for long time with no success, and then after few years being incredibly happy meeting my husband the love of my life, and then about making family :) Of course I would also love to write about trips and raising children!
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
That sounds as though it would be lovely. I like a book to have a happy ending, and it sounds as though you have many happy things that you would be able to put in your book. I don't have children yet, but I like to think that I will have them in the future, and that I would be able to write about them when I wrote my book. I think that I will write it someday. I don't think it will ever be published, but it should be something that my family could read in years to come.
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@lajonez (477)
• Poland
30 May 11
I don't have children yet nighter :( I lost my baby when I was pregnant... but I'll have children in future and I'm planning to be very good mom, so I hope my life will be happy with no big dramas! I'll never write book for publishing I'm not good in this ;) but for sure I'll be writing about our life
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
30 May 11
When I came home from my trip around the world I wrote a book about my experiences by hand. It is on my bookshelf and not many people have read it. I was 21 years old then. If I wrote a book about my life traveling to different countries would feature in it. Also parenting would feature because I have a teenage son, a disabled 4 year old son and a soon to be 2 year old girl. My pets would feature and at the moment I have 2 miniature poodles. People reading it would find my travel experiences interesting and exciting.
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
That sounds really good, because a lot of people dream about travelling round the world, but relatively few of them ever actually manage to make that dream a reality. I would love to do something like that but I know that I don't have that option right now; but instead I choose to read about what other people have done, so I am the kind of person who your book would appeal to. You should maybe try sending some pages of it to a publishing house and see whether your work would be of any interest to them. There is no other way to find out, and who knows you could have a new bestseller on your hands.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
30 May 11
I have often thought of writing a book but it would span three generations--my grandmother, my mother, my sister and myself. My grandma is the only one that had a happy marriage but it was full of hardship and her childhood and early adult life was burdensome and miserable, her mother left the family and at 12 she had to quit school and wash, cook and clean for her family. Grandpa saw her when she was 14 and vowed she would be his wife, how romantic!
My mom married young and the marriage was never very happy. My sister, the same, and when that marriage failed (they remained friends the rest of their lives) her life took several dramatic turns. She sometimes had to sell potatoes on the side of the road and scrounge through grocery bins in the alleys behind the stores for food. Me, I had a bad marriage, too, really bad.
We all survived and even thrived. I've thought often about writing a book but it seems a lot of the same old, same old. I'd be writing it mostly for myself, I guess. The people it would help would probably not listen but a lot of women could read it and feel their experiences weren't isolated and they would not feel so alone.
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
It would be good to write a book about different generations, as it is really interesting to see how the older generations lived their lives differently to the way that we do today. I once had to interview my Grandad for a school project, and it was amazing about the things that he came up with about his life that I had no idea about. He knew so many things that I never realised he did, and his life is much more interesting than I had thought it was all of these years.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
31 May 11
I have written a book about my life.. and many people have read it and found it interesting. My struggles through childhood and early adulthood are interesting to a lot of people. It's full of drama and suspense. Since then there's not much to tell.. just regular financial struggles and such.
@GemmaR (8517)
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16 Jun 11
I think that books about struggles in early adulthood are useful, because being that age is rather isolating at times, and it can be the most confusing time in a person's life, because you just don't know what will happen next in your life. At least once you have a job you know that you're sorted in life and will be able to make money for your family, but as somebody just about to embark upon their career, it is terrifying because you simply don't know what to do. So any books about life as a young person and how to shape your future would probably be incredibly successful.
@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
30 May 11
I sometimes think about this myself and to tell you the truth I struggle to come up with ideas! I keep a personal journal anyway so I suppose writing a book about yourself would be like writing a more ambitious private journal! I think that every life is interesting no matter what the person may or may not be experiencing in life. I sometimes think that my own life is a little boring but then again I have my own interests and I suppose I could write about those and make my experiences quite flowery!!
If I think about this carefully though it's almost like I am writing a book already as I do keep a private journal and many years from now this is the legacy that I will leave once I have passed on from this life. It doesn't matter whether I achieve fame or not! Andrew
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
I keep a journal of my life, too, although it isn't private as it is a public blog. I like to think that some people get something positive from reading what I have to say, and from the stories that I tell in the blog. It also makes me worry about how much original material I would actually have left to publish if I did ever decide to publish a book. I think I have told a lot of my "best" stories in my blog, so anybody who's read that would already know an awful lot about my life. I am certainly going to give it a go anyway; normal people can be interesting, too.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
31 May 11
I think I would want my book to tell the story about how I made my life, and my family's situation better. About how I sacrificed a few things so as just to make sure that my kids would have a brighter future. That inspite of all the trials, and difficulties, I still made it.
Now if only I know how to make this all true!
@GemmaR (8517)
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16 Jun 11
That would be good because there are so many families who struggle through hard times and don't really have anybody to turn to. If they were able to read about real life stories of people who have gone through the similar or worse things it might help them to be able to sort their own problems out and get along with their lives without being too badly affected by whatever circumstances have happened in their lives. You would be inspiring many people if you wrote about a good story where you have come through hard times.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
30 May 11
If i were to write a book about my life, i would start at the day i graduated from College, and talk about my love life , my married life and being a mother to my daughter. I would delve on the trials i had, how i was able to hurdle them and the transformations i had because of the problems i encountered in life.
I know it would sell because all women could relate to my life stories and learn from them.
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
Talking about stories like these I think would appeal to any woman. Certainly, this kind of story would appeal to me right now, as I am about to graduate from university and my partner and I are trying for a baby. Talking about the problems that you have faced in your life is one thing, but talking about the way that you have come through your problems and learned from them is another thing entirely. Everybody loves a success story, we feel as though we can use them to help us with our own lives, and often we can.
@jasmin_niza (362)
• Philippines
30 May 11
I would like to write the times where life was so difficult for me and my family. The time when i used to sell candies so that i'll have an allowance for school. That time, i will do everything just to finish my studies. I think my life story will give hope to a lot of students who are struggling financially nowadays.
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
I think that a lot of people could benefit from hearing your story. I am a student myself, and have had to be rather creative about what I do to earn money for myself when I need it for my studies. If I had been able to read about your struggles and how you came through them, it would certainly have inspired me to hold and on and keep following my dreams. There is something wonderful about a story where people come to the top through whatever difficulties they have faced, and it certainly sounds like you might have one of those stories to tell.
@Brandi0338 (4)
• United States
30 May 11
I often tell people that my life is one huge, boring soap. I was married when I was seventeen and had a baby by the time i was nineteen. Divorced by twenty. Remarried very quickly, then to my shock and dismay I found out that my new husband liked men just as much...if not more...then I did (I should also mention i knew this person for YEARS) then divorced again. Then I met my current husband who I married after 7 months, had baby #2 9 months later and it has been one big suck fest ever since. Ever read "Eat, Pray, Love" Well that is my life except all the fun travels and great people.
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
I find it relatively saddening when people have children and complain that their lives are boring. If I had a child, I would be enthralled watching it grow and develop, learning how to speak and learning how to walk. Being married at the age of seventeen and being divorced by the age of twenty is not the norm; and it is things like this that you would be able to talk about if you should choose to eventually write the book. Even just in these few lines that you've written, I can see potential for an interesting read should you ever choose to pursue the idea and get your life into writing.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
30 May 11
I wish I had alot of nice things to put in a book about me but unfortunately, there is not a whole lot of nice things to write about. There hae been very few good things in my life. There has just been too many bad things that overpower the good.
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
I am sorry that you feel as though the bad things in your life have overpowered the good things, however I will be writing about all of the bad things in my book, too. I feel that everything that happens in our lives helps to shape the people we become, even if those things are bad and seem as though we will never get through them at the time of them happening. If you wanted to put a more positive spin on things, you could write in more detail about the good things that have happened in your life, and then much less about the bad things. You are able to make your life what you want it to be, they're your words and your stories.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
1 Jul 11
I wouldn't choose to write one I don't think, atleast not at this time. I think I'd put a lot of good advice, or what I thought to be good advice in it though. I'd kind of make it like "big fish" the movie, except without all the lies. We have to find a way to enjoy our life, that's all I can say.
@Linzeyloo85 (32)
• United States
30 May 11
It's a good idea to write about your life experiences! You'll be able to read back on it someday. It may come in handy when you're 90 and losing all your memory! Though I'm in my mid twenties and I still have trouble remembering memories from earlier days. I guess I should just start writing them down as they come to me so I don't lose them for good!
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
That's one of the things that I am thinking about at the moment. I constantly remember things that have happened in the past that I had completely forgotten about up until that point, so I am going to start writing things down as and when I remember them. I wish there was some kind of application that allowed you to write these things down in an organised fashion rather than just the notes that I will be making, as it would probably be easier than making notes, and I would be able to add anything whenever I wanted to.
@lostrealist (2)
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9 Jun 11
if i chosen to write a book about my life i'll gradually put a story about my life that could inspire a lot of people.
@katrinakat1987 (183)
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19 Jun 11
I have thought about this quite a few times actually and if I was going to write abook about myself I would try and start from the early covering every aspect of my life and the loved ones around me. I would really enjoy writing about my life over the last 4years because they have been the biggest transission of all, moving in with my partner to 2houses having my son and expecting our second baby now. Id be there foever writing though that would be the only problem, too much to say or put down in writing. Im writing a journal for my pregnancy at the moment for my son/daughter to look back on when they are older