Have you ever been kissed unalarmed?

Philippines
May 29, 2011 6:09pm CST
Like he/she suddenly kissed you. How did you face it? I haven't encountered it yet so I want your opinion on this one.
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@mohammed3 (208)
• United States
2 Jun 11
I kind of had a situation like that. I think if it's the right person, it's not a problem. In fact, it might actually come off as very sweet or cute. That's how I felt when it happened to me =P.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
2 Jun 11
Hi. mohammed3. Welcome to myLot! This is how I feel about it too. If I was kissed by the right person, it would make my senses feel so romantically enticed.
@lajonez (477)
• Poland
30 May 11
I had that sittuation and I slaped this man in face, this was unpleaset! I don't like when people are touching me and I coudn't just walk away after this! I wanted to show that man to not try this again
• Philippines
30 May 11
ouch! yeah..it's very unpleasant. And he doesn't have respect on you..But sometimes some people couldn't just help themselves especially when they're in love...
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@lajonez (477)
• Poland
30 May 11
in my case I felt horrbile but when is about other sittuation you desribed still you can make it easier, you don't want to scare the other person, so probably you'll move slowly giving the other person time to realise what you're going to do, so she/he can let you do that or move away.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
30 May 11
Well I understand what you are saying. But to me if that is your personally boyfriend, I dont see anything wrong with what he did. But if he is not your boyfriend or if its just the first date or two, then That is really wrong. Moving in slow, I really rate that move. YEs you are right, it gives the other person time to think and respond. Maybe that other person wants to take things low so that person will back away, or maybe that person is so much in love and has been waiting for this time and will also move in for the kiss. Well there are no way to know still so its best as you say to just move in slow and just await the response from the other person.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
2 Jun 11
Hi. ordinarygirl88. Welcome to myLot! If I have been, I can't remember. But if it was with a guy a guy that I was in love with and he is my boyfriend, I would feel very mesmerized. I would feel like I am in so in love then. If a man kisses me out of no where, I may just slap him so hard or curse him completely out! I think any man that kisses on a female that is not expecting it is, in my opinion downright rude.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
30 May 11
Well to me it was very romantic. Atleast when I recieved it, it was done to me by my special person at the time. I actually love if my girl kiss me surprisingly. I just feel all tingly inside after. After she does it I would hold her tight after and try to continue the kiss but oh my anytime My girl does that tome I get blown away and I feel so good. In my situation though I really enjoyed it but i hated the fact that my past girl only did it because we were on the verge of break up and she didn't want to lose me. SHe had never done it in any other situation and it seem as if all the while I have to be the one trying to kiss her and not she trying to kiss me. Well She did something wrong that I really did not rate. Something that shows that she doesn't really respect me. i got angry and she took it so far then. I wont discuss it here but all I have to say is that she didn't even say sorry. SHe just stood there and laugh. She thought that maybe I loved her so much that I couldn't let go of her. And even though this was past event like about 2 years ago or so, i just found out RECENTLY that she was taking me for idiot. That she was going around saying behind my back that we were not together and that I was just following her around like some tail, telling everyone she did not love me. And that made me look like a fool infront of everyone. Thank goodness i never found out this when we were actually dating or I would have been so pissed then. What I don't understand is that I am not a bad looking guy. Actually throughout every school i have been, the majority of girls want to be with me. I don't knw how my past girl tried to take advantage of me. Anyway after I told her I was going to break up with her she still didn't take me seriously. So in like the next DAY. And yes i said the next day I got a new girl. Like I said I am not a bad looking guy. And the fact of the matter was that I got the best looking girl in the school. The girl everyone was after, and the best thing about that girl was that she was really the honest faithful type. She isnt the type to go messing around with other guys. So I really respected that about her. Well my past girl finally saw that I was serious and that I wasn't joking. And as I told her sorry an dthat it couldn't work out, she kiss me surprisingly, when we finished she told me sorry and that she really didnt want me to go and then her taxi came and she told me bye. But I was just speechless.....
• United States
20 Jun 11
Wow, how can I put this. There was a student at a school I was attending to and one day at gym class he kissed me on the cheek and I told the teacher on him. Felt so embarrassed after that.