How I can improve the relationship with wife?
By funnyGai
@funnyGai (52)
United States
14 responses
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
Keep the fire burning! Even if you are already married, take some time off to be alone with your wife. Go on dates. Plan new activities that both of you can participate. Keep the relationship interesting.
Communicate. In any relationship, communication plays a vital role. It doesn't mean that you only talk but as important as talking, listening to your partner's sentiments is important too. Your partner should know what is bothering you because your partner is not a mind reader. I think there is no problem that cannot be solved without sitting down and talking about it.
Compliment her. Any person would like to be appreciated for their efforts. A thank you for a good meal, or a kiss will really warm your wife's heart. Always make her feel that she is the most beautiful person in the room.
If she's angry and you don't want to be nag at, just hug her and don't let her go.
Hugs and kisses will work.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
I can not think of one more advice to add: ok maybe just one more... tie her in bed and make love to her Be Slow ok.
@fixerupper3530 (173)
• United States
4 Jun 11
Learn to listen more than talk. Hold your tongue when you want to be sarcastic. Offer to help her with laundry or dishes. Most of all care for her, and love her everyday. Don't take her for granted. If you do these things she will see that you are a caring man who wants to be kind to her.
@funnyGai (52)
• United States
12 Jul 11
Hi Fixerupper3530,
The i have only option is listen, right now am doing only that. they things is, she is comeing from village, so what ever i will she take the things in wrong way. so nowdays what am doing you know. for each and every thing, i will ask her, this is my stiutaion, what shall i do, i have an idea to this? like this way, what is opening regarding this in your point of view. finally she will agree after analysis all the parameter, she will come back and say ok. we will go that option only. now thing are going fine.
thanks for all your suggestion.
@angelo315 (232)
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
In my own experience, I want a romantic and responsible husband.... A husband who is supportive, caring, loving and understanding. My husband boosts my morale everytime I am down and lonely. He keeps on surprising me and giving gifts during special occasions, like birthday and anniversary. Even though we are already married for three years, we see to it that we have quality time with each other, we go to spa together, watch movie, dine together and go out of town. My husband is so responsible and a good provider to me and to our newly born son. God should also be at the center of the relationship. :) Maybe, my experiences would help you.
@robertp36 (7)
• United States
2 Jun 11
Well as a woman I know that we enjoying spending time with our husband. Even though you may say that you do, we always want more. It would really help to if you would help out in the house some too. When a woman fells overwellmed with cleaning the same things over and over again, she will most likely get upset and sound negative. Most important tell her how much you appriciate her more often.
A happy wife makes a happy husband. Just keep that in mind, and good luck.
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 11
The imperative step is to enjoy the common interests among both parties. What are the things? This is the thing for both parties to check it out!
@CandyRayne (458)
• United States
6 Jun 11
The first question you need to ask your self is, why you feel you need to improve your relationship. Has there been something in the past that has gotten in middle of your relationship? Are you sure you need to improve it or just add that "Spark" back into the picture? If you feel that your relationship needs to improve the first thing you need to work on is yourself. Most people that feel that thier relationships need help, really are having doughts about them selfs, or thier feelings.
The next time you guys are together, just look at her, and try and remember what it is about her that made you fall head over the heals for her! Was it her laugh, the way she looked at you, or just something silly. If you can remember what made your heart race when you first met her, make that be the first thing you think about every time she walks in the room. Relationships are not easy, and need alot of work to keep the spark going. When all else fails, just saying the random "I Love YOU" always works!
@minmin3456 (81)
• China
3 Jun 11
Hi,funnyGai.
First,love her honestly,then your heart will lead you to do what you should do.
Wish you and your wife happy.
@zazen6 (169)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Hi, funnyGai, welcome to myLot!
By asking the question, I think you are improving your relationship with your wife. I do not know what makes your wife happy but I believe by becoming sensitive with your wife's needs, you will definitely improve your relationship with her. My specific suggestions: listen to her, help with the chores, give her shopping money, allow her to have time with her family and friends... Try these things and tell me what worked. :D
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
2 Jun 11
The best thing i would suggest is to talk to her as in my view solution to any problem is the communication more you talk to her more she will understand you & vice versa.Other than this go for outing with her. Go for shopping with her. Or always take out sometime from your schedule & go for a little walk after having dinner & share your experience of the day & ask her to share hers.
But donot tell ever her the secrets,don't appreciate any female in front of her,always respect her feelings then she will do yours.