I never had 'a' best friend

India
May 30, 2011 11:48am CST
Sorry i mean i never had a single best friend , i will consider each and everyone who chats with me and spends time with me to be a best friend , i will share everything as possible , i don't like to have anything in my Mind . Will you do so ? Do you have any best friend ?
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11 responses
• Philippines
30 May 11
My younger brother, he is my bestfriend. I never keep secrets from him and also him he always telling me his secrets. And we always help and solve our individual problems. It's nice to have a brother.
• India
31 May 11
Thats a Good one , There's a proverb in my language , "If you have a brother , You may need not worry about a War" .
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
1 Jun 11
There have been several people throughout the course of my life that I have thought of as being among my best friends. However, throughout my life, there has only been one person that I actually consider to be my best friend. The reason for this is because I've been through a lot in my life through the years that I've known her and she has been by my side through everything. Now, even though she lives about 1000 miles away, she is by my side through the current struggles that our family is facing. To me, it is little things like that which make all the difference in the world.
• Philippines
31 May 11
I think, I also don't have a best friend. I treat all people as friends but unfortunately I do not think they treat me the same way that I do. :(
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
31 May 11
i consider my husband as my best friend. he is the gauge. every friend falls out of the qualifications he has. therefore, aside from him, i do not have a best friend. i have special friends though.
• Philippines
31 May 11
Actually, in this world, it's really hard to find a real best friend. Real friend are just rare and hard to find. They might be just around you but most of the time, we tend not to consider them. Anyway, if you really want to have a best friend, you must find a person that can understand your being, your life situation and everything about you. You must find a person that is same to you because in this world no one can really understand a person if she/he had never been there.
@murfus (78)
• Colombia
31 May 11
well to choose a best is one of the greatest decisions because your best friend is the one who help you in all the cases, your best friend is the person who wish to talk with you when you need it, your best friend is the person who know how to save a secret... not all the persons are best friends you need to choose them, but after you choose them you need to know yourself i mean you need to know whats are the things you like and a best friend should like them to(in my opinion) a friendship is from 2 persons if you want to be friend with jake, jake should want to be friend with you... (sorry about my bad english level im practicing)
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
31 May 11
Dear friend, Once when I was in college I do had few friends, among them for two of them I was the best friend and they do say it often. May be I do not want to hurt their love to me, for me they also my best friends. But unfortunately they are not in my place, they been out of the country I live. Still we do keep our contacts. Hope for everyone there would be best friends only thing it is time or coincidence that brings them together. Moreover I could see there are people who do not even have a friend except their family members. Anyhow I hope you will soon find a best friend with whom you feel much comfortable and happy.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
30 May 11
Hi stylewaves, So you and me are of same boat's brothers. Many time my other friends ask me as to who is my 'best friend' and I glare at them as if I did not understand what they asked me. I just can not specify as to he/she is my best friend. In my opinion when you have a good number of like-minded people around there is no necessity of a best friend. Well now you would ask me 'what if you have very important thing to discuss and some secret to share'? To this I would reply letting out a secret even to a best friend is not secure. who knows the person who is my best friend today might turn up my enemy tomorrow? Better keep things within your self and share the sharable and cheer up.
@himzey (1321)
• India
30 May 11
Hi stylewaves ! Making friends is really easy but to be in touch and maintain the same relation with them is a tough job. When you have so many friends, then choosing a best one among them is a situation where you dont want to be in. As far as I am concerned, I never had a best friend. I have a lot of pals and to me, all are good equally, but I wont pronounce any one best among them. All my class is friends with me. Even though there is group-ism in my class, I am that kind of guy, who has access to every group, and I hang around equally with all of them. And if I am correct, I am the only one who has this privilege in my class. This sometimes puts me in the the role of a moderator or negotiator in between them..lolz :p To be honest, best friend is someone I am still waiting for to come in my life. And honestly, I believe its going to be none-other than my better half. Happy mylotting :)
@marvz023 (189)
• Philippines
30 May 11
i dont have a best friend as well. the saying goes that your best friend can be your worst enemy. i learned it the hard thought. just keep a lot of close friend and good friends in your inventory if you need some. anyways, justkeep some info private because some things arent meant to be revealed
@Jessi_T (379)
• United States
30 May 11
Hi stylewaves, I did have a best friend for years, my cousin was my best friend. I haven't had a best friend for the past 13 years I was so out of it I lost a year a long the way earlier this month and was thinking it was 12 years but it's been 13. I miss my best friend. =(