Life it's so sad when you lose the person you love
By granny2011
@granny2011 (167)
Romania
May 30, 2011 1:40pm CST
Life it's so sad when you lose the person you love.My sad life story it's about to begin.Don't know what happend or why the life it's not faire with the good people.My grandmother and grandfather died in a short period of time and my friends leaved me alone.I don't have any friend now,I'l stay all my time in house.Don't know why life it's so unfair with me when I was a good person with all.Please explain me
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11 responses
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
30 May 11
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@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
30 May 11
I am sorry for your lost,my condolence to you.I too was in that situation couple months ago which i lost my grandmother and years ago i lost my grandfather. I cry a lot,but it just never help,because am still said because am not seeing them any more.A lot of people say life is unfair,because it just take away the one you love .
But you need to try an go out an make friends,an try to full that emptiness inside.
i hope that you can make some news friends soon.
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@GemmaR (8517)
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30 May 11
I am very sorry to hear about that, it's such a sad time for you. You have to remember about the good times that you had with your grandparents, and also remember that they would want you to be happy in your life and in whatever you choose to do with it. It's normal to feel sad, at least for a little while, but you need to remember that you will feel happy again and you will be able to live a normal life. You can make friends easily by joining groups or maybe doing a night class at your local college, but for now, just concentrate on mourning your grandparents, and remember that you will feel better.
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@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
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30 May 11
As the saying goes, "Life is unfair - anyone who tells you different is trying to sell you something". Being good has its rewards but they're seldom as apparent as the rewards for being mean, selfish and horrible. Personally, I'd rather be good and go unrewarded.
I've lost too many people I loved, but that's just how it is. The good thing is that they're never really gone as long as one person remembers them: as long as their memory is alive, they never leave us.
As for friends, staying at home won't solve that problem. You don't have to go out clubbing or blind-dating or anything: just smile and say "Hello" to the cashiers in the local store enough times or wave to your neighbours and you'll soon have a bit of conversation going. I can't even count the number of people I stop and chat for a couple of minutes with on my way to do the daily shop, and I don't even know most of their names. They're not friends but they're good social contact.
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@keenan_savio (416)
• India
30 May 11
Hey granny2011 accept my heartfull sympathys.....This is the toughest time inones life and we never like to see these days come our way.....everybody feels the same when things like this happen but life is not cruel its just that we have to face hardships in life and at times these hardships are much harder than we expect... sorrow is part of life and trust me it does not last for a long time...you will accept the fact of what has happened and things will eventually be back to normal.....wish you the very best in life and never feel left alone nor let down....
@lajonez (477)
• Poland
30 May 11
No matter how good person you are bad things will happend to you... about your granmother and grandfather you should be happy that they can be together, because if one of them will stay alive will suffer a lot and will be very sad. Abour your friends... just find new, because that people were not your real friends if they left you.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
31 May 11
I am so sorry to hear that. I am sure that it will happen to me one of these days also. I am good to people too. It is their loss actually even though we feel so alone.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
30 May 11
Nope, don't think negative about life. Things really happen in it's own timing, God has a plan for everything under the sun. Don;t stay alone, mingle with people. am sure there are lots of things you can do to make yourself involve and enjoy life. Trial are a part of life, let's accept it. Go out and make friends and you will see how beautiful life is.
@free_man (7330)
• United States
31 May 11
No need to be sad Granny. Your loved ones are in Heaven with God and not suffering any more they have no more pain they are young and in beautiful bodies. When I pass on I want all that know me to celebrate the time we had together and to celebrate that I don't have to go through any more bs in this human life. God is great HE does what is best in all our lives. You want to know the truth about God and where your loved ones are go listen to this man who knows he might teach you something.
http://www.shepherdschapel.com/index.htm
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
30 May 11
But this is very bad.Just leave a scar for life.Losing someone is so painful and the pain is huge.
Pain that nothing can not stop.
It is unfortunate to hear that.
But a word of advice keep up with your head held high I know it's hard but you must continue to fight and live.I hope you pass quickly.Have a nice day!
@Romania1999 (15)
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1 Jun 11
granny....like that melody of MJ...you are not alone...
If you think that you have a bad day...well believe me...you are not even close..
And you are not alone...i am 2 block's away :)) ...and Gimi to a cab away...
You need to get out of the house and spend some quality time...i will help you :)
So don't worry, be HAPPY...
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