unfair w/ jealousy. . .

Hi. geniusvinz. Sometimes you don't have to do anything to a person to make them feel the way that they feel about you. You can just be yourself and they still will become jealous of your regardless, so don't ever think that you have done something so wrong, because you haven't. Your girlfriend should not expect all of the cards to play in her favor because when she is trying to stop you from causing her to be jealous, you will end up doing so, without realizing that you have.

Husband and wife should be fair enough and observe mutual respect. Couples are oblige to perform love and care. Jealousy is not bad if this is justifiably correct. All of us has the ability to feel jealous and this must taken care all the time to avoid any arguments and quarrels...

Of course you're allowed to complain. Relationships are not one sided. You both need to be able to express yourselves otherwise your relationship is not going to work. If you are constantly catering to her needs you will let your own slide and that's not a good thing. A good relationship has balance. She can complain and get upset about things and in turn you can too. It seems like there is more than just expressing yourselves when you are jealous. There is a lot of one sidedness happening and that is not a good thing. Maybe don't take the complain approach. Maybe try to talk things out - start off by telling her you love her but there are somethings that can bother you. The slow and gentle approach. Complaining can sometimes just lead to fights.