I feel sad today

@youless (112481)
Guangzhou, China
May 31, 2011 9:26pm CST
Today is the Children's Day and I shall feel happy to it, but I am not. My son can have a day off school, but I still have to work today. So what a festival! I think it is better to make it as an official holiday so that parents and children can really have a good time together in this festival. Otherwise it means nothing to the children
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• United States
1 Jun 11
I agree! Why isn't Children's Day A federal Holiday? If All the kids are out of school , shouldn't All the Parents be off work? Try to enjoy your day.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
It doesn't make a sense that children all have their holiday without parents
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• United States
1 Jun 11
Can anything be done? Over here in the States it may take a movement or a strike or just a Congressman to propose a bill but We fight until we get things changed.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
We will be put into the jail if there is a strike, I think.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 11
Hi youless, don't be sad that easy. You still can celebrate Children's Day together with your son as soon as the office hour is over or later at dinner. Or you can get a present earlier and give it to your loving son in the celebration. It's insignificant to celebrate Children's Day with one day school off, whereas the parents are still busy with the work in the office Here in my place Children's Day falls on 16th of Oct. School children go to school as usual on this day but they don't have to bring their school bags respectively for there is no lessons. They are allowed to bring foods and beverages and celebrate in their own class after the grand Children's Day Ceremony held in the school hall is over. The official ceremony will take about half an hour or so. The following 90 min are splendid presentations dedicated by different classes. Magician is invited on this day to entertain kids sometimes. Free cup of Milo is served to school children as well occasionally. Other than that every child can receive a single gift pack contains children's favorite snacks and confections. Of course they enjoy the most is the great fun to play their favorite games together in the class Happy posting
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 11
Yeah, I believe not only you dear, majority of the parents who treasure Children's Day will like to get along with their children during this children's great day. Our kids will fell lonely as well to stay alone at home alone. I agree the authority concerned will make this day a public holiday so that parents can celebrate this wonderful festival specially for children together with their kids. We have a Children's Day Song that every kid here loves to sing to celebrate their great day
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 11
Thanks for the BR Oh yeah, I believe majority of the parents have such thinking and wish that the authority will announce Children's Day as a public holiday very soon or before the next coming Children's Day This will be a great encouragement to motivate the children to do better
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
After I am home, it will be at least 6:15pm. So it is different. In fact I wanted to have outdoor activity with him in the Children's Day. It will be the best celebration. Why not this festical be considerate?
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@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Jun 11
A good celebration goes along way to have parents and children enjoy one another. Children's Day sounds like a very nice way of celebrating how really special children are. The blessings of good health and good upbringing all come together for some laughs and smiles. Really sounds nice!
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jun 11
This festival will be ideal if both parents and children can have a day off.
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@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Jun 11
That would make it even more fun wouldn't it? Kids and parents.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
1 Jun 11
Yes,I'm agree with you.I felt similar as you many years ago when my son was a child.Happy children's day!
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
How sad it is
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• United States
1 Jun 11
Hi youless Sorry to hear you are sad and yes very hard to work on special days the children have fun days. It is so hard to juggle all and still have to work. Maybe plan something for your next day off and call it the family's Children's Day. This way you all have something to look forward to.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
This is a dilemma holiday
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
1 Jun 11
Hi youless but i think otherwise children's day is for children why adults should be given off.You can't make every festival small or big an official holiday.don't be sad about it there are other ways too to celebrate it you should have taken you child for shopping & could have purchased some toys,books,clothes etc of his choice after coming home from office.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jun 11
Try to imagine that your children have a day off, wouldn't they like to go out with you? Without their parents, they have to stay at home.
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
2 Jun 11
May be you can plan it on other day when you have an off & do some outdoor activity with your child by telling it to your child that this is for children's day as it was due on me. But i feel its really hurting you!!!
• Canada
1 Jun 11
I agree. With their parents working, they'll probably end up in daycare, or something. In Canada we have Family Day on or around February 18th, and everything is closed, except for emergency services. It's great for whole families to have the day to spend together.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
In this aspect Canada has done a good job
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
1 Jun 11
I think they should make it to where parents can be with their children too. It isn't fair for the child to be alone without a parent that day.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
Yes, it is very sad. It will turn to be a sad Children's Day rather than a happy festival.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
7 Jun 11
youless, I cannot help feeling that you are rather attached to your son here. Anyway, I am sure you can appreciate the fact that we need children to be on their own for a day or two during certain holidays without parental presence. So, what better way than a day of their own - Children's Day where they can fully enjoy and express themselves with their peers. Just take comfort that it is just a day and I am sure you would have heard some interesting stories of that day.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Jun 11
In fact in the Children's Day I asked my mom to bring Xi Xi to the science museum which he loves there so much. However, he didn't want to go. Perhaps he knew that I couldn't go there with him
• India
1 Jun 11
I am supporting your thought,this shows parent's love towards their children.But their is no need to feel sad because you are also a child of your parents and they never wants to see u like this.So untill children's day will not declare as a official holiday till u should assume that your every official holiday to be a children's day.So celebrates each and every holiday as a children's day.I hope govement should have think about chidren's day to be declare as a official holiday.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
Actually my son was not so happy when he saw me go to work in the morning...
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 11
Yes, indeed it is sad to see that we as their parents unable to spend time with our children during the Children's Day. Hopefully, you will make a good plan and spend time equally with your children, when you are free from your work schedule. I always find another day to replace that day, so my hubby able to spend time equally with my son.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
Perhaps it is better for the Children's Day to be available on Sunday as well as Mother's Day and Father's Day.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 11
Yes, that's what i always hope can become reality. I feel it is really important to celebrate the Children's Day with both parents, so the children will really enjoy it...
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
i agree with you it should be a holiday so all the children could truly the day dedicated for them and the family could gather to celebrate the children day. it should be a special occasion as busy parent have only small time to spend quality time with their children. the organizer and the country should recognize it as special holiday just like other celebration to become more meaningful.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
5 Jun 11
You are quite right.
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
If i'm in your place, i will be sad too, but what i will do is to file a leave from work even half day only so at least i can celebrate it with my child. I agree with you that it is better if it's an official holiday otherwise how can the child enjoy the childrens day if they will not go out because their parents are working. Not all parents stay at home, they need to work as well for their children.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jun 11
But you have to think what your boss reacts when you want to have a day off because of Children's Day. Not every boss is considerate...