What's the hardest decision you've ever made?
By LilacFaye
@LilacFaye (204)
Philippines
June 1, 2011 1:06am CST
For me, the hardest decision I've made was telling a guy friend (with whom I had a terrible crush that went on for years and years) how much I liked him and asked if he liked me too. That's the hardest because I was only a few months away from getting married and still I was having second thoughts about marrying my bf. But pretty soon, I weighed my feelings and found out that I just couldn't leave my bf of 4 years for this other guy, whether he liked me too or not. I just had to let him know my feelings for him, that's all.
7 responses
@EndlessNameless (48)
• United States
2 Jun 11
If you feel you are too good for him then it is not fair to him to be with him. You guys obviously are not right for one another if you feel so uncomfortable in the situation.
@LilacFaye (204)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
EndlessNameless is right. Why are you staying with him anyway? you'll probably have problems in the future about so many things if his mother doesn't like you and the fact that you are too good for him.
@EndlessNameless (48)
• United States
2 Jun 11
The hardest decision I've had to make so far was separating myself from my family. It was necessary to do so in order to have a fulfilling life with the family I am creating with my husband and daughter. Growing up my family has never treated me well and I've never been appreciated in any way. There was nothing but negativity and mind games and it still crossed over every time I spoke with them or saw them. I had to cut loose and while it was difficult, I do not regret doing so.
@aimeedia2x (374)
• India
1 Jun 11
decision to join the family business was the hardest one for me. I wanted to do something on my own. But i had a alot of presure to carry forward this business as i am only son of my parents. So there is no other option. But i still dont know that i am doing right or not.
@EndlessNameless (48)
• United States
2 Jun 11
Trust your gut instinct! If you feel unsure still, you'll never feel sure that it is right for you! Go out and live your dreams!
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
3 Jun 11
Hi!
That is really a tough decision to made, so what happen to you after you told him? Did your husband know that you have crush on other guy? I think he will be really mad if he know that.
I had my hardest decision was when I bought my first house, at that time, I have paid the deposit of about $300 to the house developer and I have one week to decide whether I really want the house or else I will lose the deposit. I was really scratch my head on whether I will be able to pay the loan installment and that have really gave me the hard time and a hardest decision to made, but finally I decided to buy the house and I realized that I actually can affort to pay the house loan because I have over calculated that I will have not enough money to pay for he installment.
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Jun 11
Hi Lilac,
For me is to find the right job. I don't have much choice when it come to landing a decent job and I have to get into the first opportunity that comes along not knowing that something better may be just around the corner.
So here I am stuck in the middle of nowhere with not much chance for the future.
@rhannealmoite (338)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
So far the hardest decision I made is to give up my studies and be full time in working to help my brother finish his studies. Our family had been through huge problem regarding finances that's why I had to do that. My brother promised me that after he graduate, he'll surely help me to continue, For now I'm the who's gonna be the support.
