stupid love

Philippines
June 1, 2011 7:07am CST
why are there people who were so stupid because of love? can it be really called love or obsession? i have known some people who made them selves look-like stupid because they say they were just inlove..even if it is so visible and obvious that the person they serve doesn't love them,even if they get hurt,even if they cry every night,even if they knew that person had someone they still insisted their selves to them,they still don't give up.. Martyrdom and stupidity.. when will they accept that they were not loved? when will they realize that they deserve more and there are other person they can love and who can give more love back to them? sad but this is true to some.=(
2 responses
rdmcollamat
@rdmcollamat (176)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
It may not be a question of intelligence (whether they are stupid or not). People undergo psychological stress in almost every aspect of their lives. Maybe these people have not yet experienced how it is to be loved truly. Or maybe they have experienced something in their past that have distorted their perception or understanding of what love is and how it works. There are several reasons as to why this may happen but the best thing that we can do is to be a good friend or family to these people. Advise them well and try to show them what a good relationship is and how it supposed to work. :)
whitehowkz
@whitehowkz (106)
• India
1 Jun 11
yes you are right, i have a friend who was big stupid in matter love, he newer learn anything when he got bitter experience from his lovers,he can't live without lovers if one is gone he will cry for week( a little rest) a go to the back of another one and lose his money,life,study,love of his parents,and anything he can suggested many times but no use, if a girl smile at him he will go to marry her in that instance the true joke is that he has only 21 year old