what's the first thing you look at in a man or in a woman?

When meeting a woman for the first time,I pay special attention to her body language.A lot of times when the girl is not nervous,most of the communication between us is through our body language.This successful non-verbal communication gives a feeling of that chemistry.The next most important thing is her self image.She should believe herself and confident and aware.These two are the most important things I look for.

I hate guys that come on too strong and try to show off or act like they're marking their territory. I think its sweet when they just come over to you and say hi. I guess its all in the body language and attitude for me.

He doesn't have to be Tom Cruise or George Clooney, he just has to be nice to look at. More importantly, I want someone who's smart and someone who can make me laugh. But the most important thing for me is that the man loves me.

hi! for me i can't hide the fact that every time i look at a woman or a man, the first i'm going to notice is his/her appearance. but as they say, looks can be deceiving so after looking at her outside appearance i must look next to his/her inside or characteristics.