can you still love him/her?

Hi asliah love is not done on predeclared things its not that if i know that one is going to leave me sooner or later i will start loving him/her more this not the case love just happens.

This is true that we can't like to friend of person which leave us after some time. But Love is thing that we will not decide to whom we do or not. this is automatically comes in our mind. So its depend up on our feelings, our thoughts about that particular man/woman.

Hi asliah.. My views will be something different here. I am not in love with anyone still now, hence my love will be my wife after marriage and there is no chance of leaving me after marriage... if some unwanted issues does not happen. have a nice day.

Yes,I think I'll do the same.If I love her and she loves me in return I will enjoy being with her even for a short time.At least I have showed her how much she means to me even I know she's leaving.

I guess so. If you mean physical separation like the other will be leaving for another country, I will still love him despite the short period because I can still hope that I can make him change his mind.

hi asliah. i think you're really right. some people will only pass by once in a lifetime. and also for me, i will really love him/her too. even though i know that it will really hurts. even though i know that he/she will leave me sooner or later. i just keep telling myself to prepare for whats going to happen. keep telling my self that i lived with out him/her for a long time, so i will be able to live even he/she is out of my life. thats what i always tell my self. but when you're inlove, you will forget everything. and when they're gone, it hurts like hell. but i dont regret loving them.. at least, once in my life i felt that way. once in my life, they became a special part of me. and to think that i became a part of them too makes me really happy..

i am not sure what you are talking about but love is a win or lose situation. some relationship that no matter how long they are together sometimes (or most of the times ) ends up being separated. love is a thing for people who have the same feeling. so if i know someone who i like then i need to prove to that person i am worth for her to stay. when i courted my wife all i have in my heart and mind is to tell her i love and care for her. i want her to feel that she is important and i want her to know that with me she will be happy for the rest of her life. though i dont know if she will love me back i did all my best.... and now we are married for 9 years and counting.

I don't know the answer to it, since I have a failure relationship before. Maybe I would try to have one if that love for us is real and exciting. It will leave me a good memory in my mind. That is all I know. Oh well, hopefully you will find your love like that someday.

Why not? Yes, go on with your decision. You may love him even if you know that he will leave you some day. Make that short period as your happy days with him. For me if it worth my time and my love I will~

For me, in my experience before I did not let myself have a relationship with a man I know would just leave me, I didn't want to end up looking like a fool, because he didn't love me the way I loved him so I didn't let anything start...but if that person loves you but just couldn't stay, then why not?

Of course you can.There's nothing wrong in it as long as you are too much EMOTIONALLY INVESTED into this short-term relationship.Maybe you could learn something new about life by being in such a relationship.

For me, I don't because I belief much on Romance. Love is about trust, care and patience but not about "take-a-try" basis.