The woman may want to change man

Bulgaria
June 1, 2011 4:51pm CST
You think a woman can you change the man beside him. To change his habits and make it different. Can a man be tamed and reconciled to be changed by a woman. Well share friends.
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@vivamir (671)
12 Jul 11
To change a man?. If he wants to change he will do so, as his desire is to make you happy and that he knows you will do the same.. but to change a man against his will- its not fair on him, the emotional blackmail falls to a point of unhealthiness (maybe depression).. If its worth changing (for both sides) and only leads to further happiness- then why not- Change for better not for the worst..
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• Bulgaria
13 Jul 11
to as E. One must want to change so that any change must and will. Nobody can change someone against his will. You have to really want to change some. Thank you for your reply and nice day!
• Bulgaria
13 Jul 11
@vivamir (671)
13 Jul 11
I dont disagree..
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
Hi there! i have seen many women friends who think they can change a man... this i think is even the reason why most women are drawn to the men who seemed rough and who seemed tough and "bad boys" in their image. women bhave that thinking that they can change the man they arre with.. but their mothers can't change them so why do you think you can? Changes are possible but it is only possible when one man (or a woman) would want to change on their own, it is their decision and they should be the ones who want changes to happen in their lives. it is a personal choice. and you can never impose that on anyone.
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 13
true. I think that just one learns to live with the man in your life as it is. more so if you love that person you do not need to change it. rather should understand it and go in his position when necessary. thanks for the reply.
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
21 Mar 13
Hello my dear friend. Well some change can be expected from a man or a woman - either as a compromise or as a necessity because of various reasons that can happen with or without consciousness. Point that I am trying to make is that if you try to change your loved one too much you might end up changing him to much and decide you won't love him anymore.
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 13
woman always wants something. But when Isaac to change the man next to him, and it can become bad. I think that everything should be done sparingly. You can not change a man slowly and gently with a soft brush. thanks for the reply.
@ritzz07 (788)
• India
12 Jun 11
hi nezavisima i always think not only think but believe that all women wants to chng their men.they wants then to be like they wants them.sometimes i think women wants their men to be like heroes shown in movies but they dont know real life is different than reel life......
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• Bulgaria
12 Jun 11
yes I agree with you friend.Many are right that real life is something very interesting and confusing.Thanks for the reply and nice day!
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
It's not likely to happen. A few might but most won't be able to. Men are stubborn when it comes to their habits. They might change if they would find that realization that they really have to change for the better. That's what I think.
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• Bulgaria
9 Jun 11
To any change must be for good.A change would do differently and one another.Each variation must be taken.Thanks for the reply and nice day!
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Jul 11
You can't fix a fixer upper is what I was always told growing up and it is so true. You cannot change someone. They have to change themselves if they want to change. =)
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• Bulgaria
10 Jul 11
to as E. wants to have some change. you can not get somebody to change against their will. Thank you for your reply and nice day!
2 Jun 11
Why would you want to? If your goal is to change the person you're with, you're with the wrong person... you'd be better off looking for someone who's actually what you want. In my opinion, relationships based on one person wanting to change the other are doomed from the start. Horrible idea.
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• Bulgaria
2 Jun 11
Maybe so it is! Yes we must love this man to us as it is.must be sure that we want to be with him for what we've chosen it.Thanks for the response friend and a nice day!
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
I don't think that a woman can change his man. Only him, the man alone, should decide to himself that he would change. But I have a belief that if a man would accept faith and is determined to follow the teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ, then he would be able to change himself.
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• Bulgaria
2 Jun 11
Yes it is! Everyone should want to change because beauty is not forced. think if it could be some changes to the way it wants. Thanks for the reply.Have a nice day!
• United States
5 Jun 11
Personally no one can change anyone. We can ask, request and or demand and maybe some can attempt, it may work for a bit but as far as long term. I do not think anyone changes because someone asks for it see, only changes come when one personally accepts the changes need to be done, then and only then will the changes happen.
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• Bulgaria
5 Jun 11
Do not change someone is so difficult and impossible. Anyone can change but as long as it wants and wants it very much. He wants to change.Besides, people such as God created them and must accept despitte everything, despite our shortcomings and each class must be evaluated.Have a nice day friend!
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
I don't think a woman can change a man. He might change for a period of time but there will be a point when he will come back to his old self or his default behavior. I dont think it's also right to think that you can change a person, if you love a person, you must love him for what and how he is else, it's not true unconditional love but selfish love. Since you loving the person is based on your own criteria which you would want be met.
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• Bulgaria
2 Jun 11
Thanks so much for the reply.Not really a person can not be changed that's only if he so wishes.Yes if you love one must love him as it is, Have a nice day!
8 Jun 11
it depends really I mean there are people who would change themselves without knowing it because of influence by her woman like maybe if he was lazy and unmotivated previously but found a woman that he really loves to the extent that he would be an opposite of what he is and be a workaholic to give a good life to this woman. but this happens to few lucky women in the world
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• Bulgaria
9 Jun 11
Yes it is! Many people are changing and it unconsciously.There are people who see the need to change because it can not.One woman can change both the man and the man beside him so can cause him to not want to change. For each change must be careful and be very circumspect.Thanks for the reply and nice day!