Friendship and Love

Well, for me, I'd take my lover. Because a lover can also be your best friend. While not all best friends can be your lover. :)

There should not be a situation as this in life. I mean your love for a friend is entirely different from your love with your wife or girlfriend. There should be no point that we will be choosing between the two. But I guess this is hypothetical, so if I am going to choose between the two, it would be based on what matters to me most. And I guess if that happens, my wife should matter more than my friend. She's the one whom I promised that I should live together forever right? But again, I want to reiterate, it should be a rare case to choose between a lover and a friend. Their not comparable and there's no point choosing between the two, they're not mutually exclusive options.

It's hard to choose between two people whom we love. But i am sure i will choose my love (bf) if he deserves to be the one. But if my best friend has all the proof to show that my bf doesn't deserve my love,then i will choose my bestfriend. I will weighed things accordingly or else i will lose both of my beloved. So,i will see the reason why i need to choose my boyfriend and i will also look at my best friend's side why i must choose her.

if you think this relationship is the "one" for you.. i would take the relationship. yes, ok thats horrible to say about a friendship, and if it was just a fling, or a crush, id say take the friendship.. but the way i see it is, ok, so you pick the friend, and use are happy in your little friendship.. now what happens when your friend meets someone? falls inlove? gets married? starts a family..? where does that leave you? living in their spare room babysitting their children like a lonley old soul?.. so if you pass up your chance at YOUR own life, for your friend.. what happens when your friend gets their own life? and your left with nothing, except some stolen time with your friend? .. a true friend, as well, will never stand in your way, or walk away.. remember that!

I would have chosen my friend,if i had a situation like this.Time can wash away the emotional pain of a love and another person in your life can surely replace the one you have loved.But we can get only one true and divine friend in a lifetime.100 lovers can never replace a true friend.

a friend also has some limits,he must nt cros his limits.as we all agree it is all the time seen that a hubby or wife are nt bothered about their friendly relations,but in true life it effects much ,so try so make a distance with ur friend,

If you are talking about between your husband or a wife and best friend. You should choose the one you have pledge to God that you will love for better or worst and till you will part. Because you are binded by God and let no one can break it. Whatever the situation is, you should be with your husband or wife. Your bestfriend has a different role in your life and she can understand that.

I would choose love, since no friendship will last longer than your love one. My past experience was I have a good friend who are really close to me and we almost contact each other everyday but when she found out that her best friend likes me, she started to ignore me and from there on our friendship faded. It was really sad.

for me i prefer to choose my lover because i know my best friend would understand me if i choose it and he thinks that i am happy on my decision he would supports me. i choose my lover because ill never know if i can feel that love again if i let him go and my lover is the only one i supposed to be with in my entire life and my love is sacred i couldn't easily find love in other person the way i feel on my lover. He is my life and i promise to myself that i would never regret to choose him because he puts meaning and color in my life compared to my best friend and my best friend knows before we became best of friends that i wouldn't choose him to my lover and he understands it i know its hard but he would accept it and be happy for us.