sad that you belong to someone else

Noo dude..... you r not..... Just live happy life... and don't think too much about that.!!!

Hi! Who are you actually talking to? If you were to tell your girl friend or boy friend, you should tell her/him directly instead of post it here in mylot. No matter how hard or how much your post it here, she/he will never know how you feel and you will still have your problem unsolved. So, be brave, talk to her/him and I believe you will definitely get the problem solved and you will be happier. As long as she/he is not married, you still have chance as long as you take the action. Hope that you will be successful!Good luck!

I think it is innate in all of us to want something or someone that we can't have. It's just the thought of having that person that makes us feel that we will be satisfied. But in the end, you'll know that it was just your mind playing on you. We don't really need someone that bad. We just are deeply infatuated about someone that we feel that they are perfect. But if we could only open our eyes to the reality, she/he isn't that special at all. I felt the same way a few years back when I thought I loved someone so much. He ended up marrying someone else and I cried. However, now that I have my own partner and have accepted the fact that he's not for me, I realize that he's not that special at all. My mind just made him the apple of my eye that was why I felt he was perfect. Now, I no longer look for him, whenever I get the chance to talk to him I already find him boring. I even forgot to greet him on his birthday this year. Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitter. In fact, we still hang out with out other friends. I just don't think my mind was right that time around. Now I'm glad I didn't do something stupid with that emotion. Just take it all in and don't do anything you'll regret in the end. It's never good to break up someone with someone they love for selfish reasons. If you truly feel you love the person, you are willing to make her happy even if you don't belong in the scenario. Good luck! Have a great MyLot day!

It's the basic law of nature. The law of nature requires us to learn to have patience. It compels us to wait. Yes, and waiting is just not so attractive a word for me. And it seems that "waiting" is just an irritating word for me that I couldn't contain it. I am impatient too. But for existing for over 2 decades here on earth, I have learned to live with it. While it is true that we now have instants in life, we still have to be compelled at some point by the law of nature "TO WAIT"... There are things in life needs to go through a process, a season. Seasons are designed for certain purpose and it should always work out for our good. So I do hope you would learn to live with "WAITING" too. LOVE will come. There is always someone made for you. Though it takes time it shall surely come. chuyins

Aww, this is sad. But also very unhealthy for you. This 'friendly' relationship isn't going to work and you should accept that. If you do, you will be able to open yourself up to others and who knows, maybe the one for you is just waiting out there. Stop the hurt and stay away. It is hard at first but you'll be okay. Love yourself. :)

Don't think too badly of it. If it is not meant to be then it is not meant to be. I was in your situation where the girl I loved who was also my best friend went out with my other best friend. I had always thought we had something, but since they were my best friends, I wished them the best of luck. If they were in need of anything, I would just help if I can. I know that it is hard to move on, but just do it. It might not hurt as much as you think it does. You could be overexaggerating it. But after they broke up, she was still back on the market. And now we are going out. You can still continue to love her, but not have to show it.

As if i am reading myself here. I also wonder why we need to beg love-when love should/must be given to everyone? Okay- i am just kidding. But- yes...why love is so hard to hug? I also don't know. And i've learned to play with the game called "love" Keep cool and relax...and you will see..love will come flying to you and asking you to be loved. welcome to mylot