She stole my boyfriend.

@ariana01 (182)
United States
June 2, 2011 10:19pm CST
My friend thought that i was wrong years ago when i stopped talking to her for a month because she stole my boyfriend from me. She is likely that i even kept on talking to he after it passed. It turned out i have an amazing fiance now and that guy ended up being a bum. lol It turned out better for me and he and her are still close friends. But she is still mad at me to this day about ignoring her for a while. Was i right or her? Do you think i should have reconciled and been her friend again even though she still betrays me for other things still? Or was she right that i should never had stopped talking to her? SHe thinks she my best friend but that's a funny joke....lol
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11 responses
@iklananda (1202)
3 Jun 11
No worry you can find other boyfriend.There is so many man in the world. Such as me for example ^.^
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• Philippines
3 Jun 11
Nice one man... hehe
@iklananda (1202)
3 Jun 11
thanks a lot
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
I believe everything happens for a reason. God has lead you to the right path. Thanks to her you've got an amazing fiance now. Just forgive her. :)
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• Portugal
3 Jun 11
ariana im sorry that she stole your bf. i think you did the right thing. sure is hard for us to see the guy we love with someone else. and she was your friend so she would tell you all the time things about him. that would just really hurt you. i understand that she felt sad for lose your friendship but it also wasnt easy for you. just explain to her that you were really hurt with what happened. and that would be hard for you to be her friend and listen to her talk about your ex all the time.
• Nigeria
3 Jun 11
Very funny lol
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
How can she thinks that she's still your best friend when she has stolen your boyfriend? And how can you talk to her still when deep inside you are hurting and angry? Well, you see what happened was a blessing in disguise. You now have a better boyfriend than hers.
@ariana01 (182)
• United States
3 Jun 11
hehehe i know lol. She relieved me of the biggest mistake of my life. Just glad it has pasted and i don't think i will be talking to her anytime soon.
@kumakuma (84)
• Malaysia
3 Jun 11
i think what you did is right because she stole your boyfriends and then hope you will not mad with her. But I glad you still go on with your life and now get a new guy. she think she is your best friend? haha.. sound funny. after all she did to you she still thinking about that? I think she should think that before she stole your boyfriend
@ariana01 (182)
• United States
3 Jun 11
i think she's just desperate for a friend and i guess i'm easy to take advantage of when it comes to feeling bad for someone because they are lonely. I gotta rethink this logic though.
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
i can never imagine the beauty of friendship can be ruined by just one man
• United States
3 Jun 11
I don't think you are wrong whatsoever. Your "friend" is the one at fault and should be trying to mend things. If you really can't accept her for the things she has done, then don't force yourself. Once a "stealer" always a "stealer. One's personality doesn't change overnight and in your "friend"'s case, for her thinking you have been wrong the whole time shows her character just ain't good. Better to leave that person alone and move on with your life.
@ariana01 (182)
• United States
6 Jun 11
i agree. I need to find new friends because most of mine are unreliable and are capable of doing something like this again.
@GardenGerty (162370)
• United States
3 Jun 11
A friend like that I would keep at a distance. I do not think you were wrong, that was a real betrayal. I was going to say that if she could steal him, he was never really yours. I am glad things have worked out much better for you.
@ariana01 (182)
• United States
3 Jun 11
Thanks :) i just hope she realizes that criticizing and betraying people doesn't gain her real friends.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
I do not think that it's not right that you stopped talking to her because she stole your boyfriend. First and foremost, that is just sick. If she's really a friend, she wouldn't think of doing that to someone. She has a lot of nerve to be the one who is angry of you when in fact it was her who broke your trust! That's just crazy! It's good that you are now having a good relationship with your fiance. I don't think you should start looking back to those people who hurt you. You have lived life without her, and I don't think that it's time now to patch up relationships with people who are no longer part of your life. Just try to ignore them and just live your life. That chapter has ended and don't open it again.
@ariana01 (182)
• United States
3 Jun 11
i agree. Ever since i have stopped talking to them i have relived my life of its biggest source of drama. Sooo much easier.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
It is very sick betrayed by a friend. people who are often betrayed, does not deserve to be friends. However, you do not need to break up friendships. You just say hello as needed, and need not be too close. And you should note you must be careful with people like that.
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
wow. first of all, best friends don't steal each other's boyfriends. so yeah, she's not your best friend. second, SHE stole your boyfriend and not the other way around, it's normal to have that reaction that you had but if you didn't want the friendship to end, you both should have talked about it, asked for forgiveness from both parties and been happy for each other no matter what happened. blaming you for not talking to her doesn't really suggest that she's a good friend. she's being selfish.
@mslianne (79)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
Wow, that sucks. Friendship is a relationship. And just like any other relationship, you and your friend should be able to trust each other. More so, because you're "best friends". But now that she did something wrong, she betrayed you, for Pete's sake, I think the trust has been breached. I don't think you were wrong. You were hurt and you had every right to show that.