How to know " i am in love"......?
By darkmoon
@darkmoon (701)
India
June 4, 2011 7:40am CST
Hi friends ,
Love is very special feeling created by the God.No one is expect from this feeling,old and young.I have many been get many proposel in day,dont take it as very important.But i have a feelings to some one,but that is my friend.I dont know its a love or some another.If any body can tell me what are the feelings of love?How to understand it ?But in my case this is very different never feel this before ....
thanks ..
14 responses
@denikurniadi (317)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 11
WHen you always wanna meet him. and you don't know what you wanna do with him. it's LOVE
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@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
4 Jun 11
hi Darkmoon,
you are right madam, i too feel like this recently for love there is no old and young,love may fall,we does not know who come to in our life,i too was now in the same mood i could not reveal not more this i could not spend a day,because now i am Banglore, the other is at my place,but i have talked twice today ,before night i call once again ,i am recollecting my college days with old hindi film songs ,do you have seen moovie "April Fool " in hindi, there is song in between Biswajeet and Saira bhanu, the hero is singing like this 'Meri mohabbat pak muhabbat our sahi ka haak mohabbat', he is telling that his love is geinuine and the other are fake,if you send your email id i will send the song to you,by mail,have a nice day
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
6 Jun 11
I knew that I was in love with the man that is now my husband when I first realized that without him I didn't feel like I was a complete person. Actually, from the time that I first talked to him I knew that he was going to be the person that I would be spending the rest of my life with. I think that what you are describing might well be your body's way of telling you that you are in love and it isn't something that you will be able to fight.
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
5 Jun 11
Hi darkmoon, It depends on your age as well. I feel generally after age of 25 or 26, mind is really matured and feelings towards one is start of love. But same time, it should be strong, you like him, talk to him, share things and explore. Only when you communicate, one fine day you will understand its nothing but love by yourself. Also make sure if you are strong on him and so as he, then the true love is on the way! Cheers!
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@arnair7 (4)
•
20 Jan 12
dear friend,
i do understand your feeling.
i agree with you on one thing,LOVE is very special feeling created by GOD.
in your case you are in a little confusion , right? it happends to every one. i also had situations like this.
the first thing you must do is RELAX & THINK. think about all the situations that you had with this person. the happiest,sadest,badest,angriest,etc..then ask these questions yourself
1)was he/she their when you needed him/her the most?
2)do you like his/her presence?
3)do you get back to him/her after all the problems between you 2,forgetting everything?
just because the person is your friend doesn't mean that it can not be LOVE!!!
in my opinion a lover is a TRUE FRIEND also....
so if you trust this person and if he/she also loves you go for it..
may GOD bless you........
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@stylewaves (1060)
• India
4 Jun 11
Try to solve the questions so i can tell you whether it is love or not ?
1.How long do you know him ?
2.Do your parents know him ?
3.Do you really feel that he will take care of you ?
4.Does he speak with you only in a friendly manner ?
Last but not the least , if it s positive you can never mind the above questions ?
5.Do you want a real love or are you doing it for fun ? If yes you can love Him without considering the above questions !
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@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
5 Jun 11
I don't think there is a way to describe how to know if you're in love, I think that you just have to know base on how he makes you feel or even how do you feel about the relationship as a whole.
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
4 Jun 11
To be honest, I don't know the answer. The first time I was in love, I didn't know it. He was my friend too. We were close and I always wanted to talk to him, be with him and strangely fight with him hahah
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
4 Jun 11
The way you have tried to explain I think mostly you must be loving this person and possibly because of your culture of not being able to explain straight away --u have posted in this forum to get confidence to speak to that person.
Analyse whether he is suitable for you considering various aspects like education, job, status etc. and then propose. Have a good day.
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@jameygc (452)
• United States
5 Jun 11
Love can easily confused with other feelings. That is why we should be careful and analyze very well before call it love. Only you will know is it love or not. If you feel like this person has become more important in your life that maybe a friend and that feeling is not just physical, then maybe is love.
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@rhannealmoite (338)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
If A person gives you a feeling that you cannot explain, something that's hard to understand, feels like you're flying or you're stomach is always full when you're with that person. You're having a bad day if his not around, missing him more often Then it would be love, I suppose. LOve is the most good feeling .
@wzm1022 (43)
• China
5 Jun 11
It's agreat problem ,I think love a person's felling is not use words can express,is from the heart ,if you love a person your whole heart will be attracted to him for his fascinating for his passions , you wish every minutes can see him saw his you felling excited ,heartbeat to accelerate and together you'll fill very warm ,safe ,real love a man ,you will be willing to look after him ,take care of him ,give everything he wants ,he happy you also happy ,he worried you worried With him you'll feelyou have all.
@kaimart_aileen (25)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
You know your in love when you cant sleep at night thinking of her or him. can't wait to see her or him. :)
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