I unfriended my sister today
By Porkchopchop
@Porkchopchop (324)
Hong Kong
June 4, 2011 4:21pm CST
Hi there, I am very new to myLot, and I would like to make some supportive friends here...
Today I unfriended my sister on facebook. Actually I am engaging in a quarrel with my mum. My sister asked me what had happened on facebook and I told her everything. But later on when she met my mother, I did not know what my mum told her, maybe something untrue, she chose to support my mum instead of me. I found it meaningless for me to explain everything to her on facebook as she did not believe in me. My views and words became so unimportant, and finally I hid in a toilet in a shopping mall, unfriended her, and broke into tears.
I cried and cried these days because of the family problems. I thought my sister was the only one who support me in the family BECAUSE she knows that my mum is always unreasonable and irrational. Now I am very depressed. I am a person who wants love, maybe unconditional love, desperately.
In House Season 7, Cuddy told House that Pain Happens When You CARE...I want to have no pain, I try not to care, but will there be no pain at all? (Cry...)
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6 responses
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
5 Jun 11
Hi. Porkchopchop. Welcome to myLot!
I am very sorry about this. I am going through sadness too because of how my family members treat me now. You are not alone. My sister and her daughter, which is my niece came by my house yesterday afternoon and I told my niece that I don't feel like having any company right now. It hurt me the most to tell my niece this, because I wanted to spend some time with her and I know that she wanted to play with her cousins too. But, I just did not want any company at all, because my sister never does anything for me when I ask her to. I have done favors for her, but she won't do anything for me at all. So, I felt like she was just using me and I did not want to see her yesterday. Your sister should not just be all on your mother's side at all. It is also wrong that your mother probably told her untrue things about you too. A mother should not get on her good side just to get on your bad side. My grandmother has done this to us when we all lived in her house. It was wrong to do this though!
I am very sorry about this. I am going through sadness too because of how my family members treat me now. You are not alone. My sister and her daughter, which is my niece came by my house yesterday afternoon and I told my niece that I don't feel like having any company right now. It hurt me the most to tell my niece this, because I wanted to spend some time with her and I know that she wanted to play with her cousins too. But, I just did not want any company at all, because my sister never does anything for me when I ask her to. I have done favors for her, but she won't do anything for me at all. So, I felt like she was just using me and I did not want to see her yesterday. Your sister should not just be all on your mother's side at all. It is also wrong that your mother probably told her untrue things about you too. A mother should not get on her good side just to get on your bad side. My grandmother has done this to us when we all lived in her house. It was wrong to do this though!
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
5 Jun 11
I haven't unfriended with anyone on Facebook yet,let alone my sister,but the most important thing is to be friends in real life,so it's essential to have a close relationship with your sister,and I'm sure these difficult moments will be left behind and you and your sister will support each other.
@jugsjugs (12967)
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4 Jun 11
I have unfriended people on face book and once one of them was my mother and another time it was my brother.I think that it is strange how one small disagreement, can turn into something a lot bigger.I do not blame anyone deleting, blocking or even unfriending people on face book, if it means a more peaceful life.On here i have a lot of friends that i see and a lot of friends that i have never met, this is a great place to come to let off steam.
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
5 Jun 11
im sorry to hear that you are having problems with your family. I once had a problem with my brother and I know that it feels so bad when the hurtful words are coming from a family member.
I hope it gets better soon. if they wont agree that what you think is right. try to look back into the argument and see if there is reason in what they are insisting. you cant go on fighting with your loved ones forever.
@mrgpk63 (444)
• United States
5 Jun 11
You all need some Help and You need to be Friendly to Your Sister at All Times. You Only got One Sister and Mother. You are Human and Caring is part of being Human. So is being Hurt and Depressed. But having Nobody is much Worse than You Realize. All Issues need to be Worked Out and Avoiding Your Mother and Sister isn't Good and try to Grow Up and Be a Man. Good Luck.
@6928961 (111)
• China
5 Jun 11
I am sorry to hear what happened to you!I can understand the taste of alone when no one support you and confirm you.I have a sister too.We often fight for little things,but we were soon reconciliation.So I believe you and your sisiter will be good as before.You two can have a talk,she will undstander you as before.Sometimes our family members really love us.But they want to do some good for us which we don't need,so they can hurt us.I think the communication,understanding and respect are the most things in the family.Don't cry,my friends.you can tell them what's your real idea in peace way not extreme way which will hurt yourself,then maybe they will respect your idea!I think you can soon settle your problem.Wish you happy!
