how to deal with the person you dont like?
By jmana02
@jmana02 (57)
Philippines
6 responses
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
5 Jun 11
Hi Jmana.
If you can't get rid of him then you should try to work well with him by finding his good points. And vice-versa, if he does not have any good point (in your eyes), then you should try to get rid of him. If both ways don't work, you must try to undergo and not to react his jokes; maybe after a couple of time, he won't be interested any more in the games that nobody cares, and he'll stop by his own. I know it's really hard for you, but there's always a solution. Be patient and good luck.
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
5 Jun 11
It isn't always a matter of making them stop, it's really changing your own point of view. However, sometimes they can overreact. You need to know how to take care of this without overreacting yourself. If you think about why they do certain things, you're likely to realize it's all for your own good, and that you should go along with it, because it hurts them if you don't.Talk to them. Tell them you don't like what they do. The least you can do is make sure they do not put a damper on special days for you. This might include your birthday. However, parents may not comply with this either.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Typically, if you let people walk over you, they would almost without any care at all. You should learn how to put your foot down and say it's enough, you'll learn that on your own.
@Sushi_Tabachoi (56)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
My mom always say that a difference between a good day and a bad day is your attitude. Try to look forward to the other things in your day and try to stop zooming in on this person. He/She probably talks to you the way he/she does because he/she feels you're a good listener. Every time he/she does something annoying, just think about how you're making this person's day by simply listening to him/her and in turn you'll feel good about yourself.