Dealing with the death of your mom.

Sorry for you loss. The crying stops eventually but there will be times that you will want to cry or depressed like on Mother's Day and her Birthday. I lost my mom when i was 15. I so wish I had my mom around to teach me to cook like she did and to see my daughter. I agree to spend everyday with your parents like it's the last. When i hear of people saying they hate their mother or is mean to their mother it makes me mad. I say to myself they are lucky to have their mother around that i would give anything to have my mother back. I'm 46 now there are times when i'm alone I think about my mom and tears still swell up in my eyes. I wasn't there when my mom passed either. My dad thought it was best to go home with my sister who was about 3 hrs away.

hi! I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you'll get through this and recover eventually. Mothers are really special to us. I really agree with you.I hope you did have a wonderful time with your mom.

Hi mrsbean and a warm welcome to myLot! I am sorry to hear of your mothers passing and my sincerest condolences. It will take time to alleviate the sadness and the time can vary. Do continue to remind yourself that she would want for you to be happy. It is okay to cry and perhaps you will cry for sometime and or always but it does get better. Remind yourself of all the wonderful happy moments you and she shared and yes they will cause you to cry but at some point they will be happy tears. Continue to keep her loving memory alive in your heart and this will be of great comfort. Best of luck and wishing you well.

My siblings and I are blessed to have our old dear mother with us. She's now 80 years old and still the best mother in the world. There are times, she acts differently but the wit and the wisdom are still there. She is still beautiful despite those wrinkles and age spot in her "mestiza" skin.We takes times in taking care of her (she has the old family house) every day as we pay visit. What we miss is her cooking. Yes, it is hard to cope when her time comes but as of now, we are making the best of the time when she's still with us.

Hi Mrsbean, I am sorry for your lost. I know what are your feelings right now. I have also felt that way when I lost my father at the age to 24 and three later at the of 27 ( i am now 28 yrs old) I have lost my mother. It is really hard to mend the wound cause by the loss. Fortunately for me, I have my wife to comfort me whenever I feel sad. And also my mother-in-law and father-in-law are very supportive of me that I feel the my parents live in them. The time will eventually come that you will learn to accept the fact that your mother is now gone. And it will also help you to forget the pain cause by this passing if you will try to focus your self into something that will make you busy. Or you could also try focusing on giving attention and/or care to your love ones that are still living. At times, it is also normal that you will cry whenever you miss your mother. So you should not be sad and just remember the things that you do together when she was still alive. God bless

Hello Mrsbean: Is very sad to hear that your mom passed away. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling at this moment. I love my mom so much and we are so close, that I don't see how would be my life without her. Unfortunately I know that anything I tell you is going o make you feel better. Only the time will be able to heal your pain. Meanwhile try to maintain the time the most busy you can. Try new things and soon you will be able to remember but your pain is going to be less.

After I have lost my Dad when I was just turning 18 years old I have keep in mind that I would take care of my Mom the best way I can. I have been doing just that. At first when she told me that she will be re-marrying I was mad at her but after thinking about it for quite sometime I decided to do the adult thing and let her go with this. I find myself depending the two of them during the very first face to face encounter with both the kids from the previous marriage. I do not agree with all of her endeavors but I love her enough to give my support through the years. I want to leave a good example to my daughter of how I love the woman who give me life.