My husband changed
By indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
13 responses
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
Maybe because hes just so worried with his father and maybe he has so much in mind right now because of what happened to his dad. This is the right time that you show your love to him, hug him sometimes, kiss him sometime, tell him i love you, even if he doesn't response to what you did, talk to him about anything that are positive, like happy moments together, or anything happened for the day that were good and positive, it's okey if he doesn't response to it, just do it, in that way you show him that you love him and cares for him, and that whatever happens you are just right there for him.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
indahfth hi,
tell me, is it good or bad for you?
ann
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@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Maybe he is thinking about his father's health and I just hope he changed for good.As you have said most of the time he is angry,now that he is so quiet maybe it's your turn to console him and give assurance that all will be alright.
Prove to him as his wife that you cared for him and you are always beside him in case he needs help.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I think while you're giving us a picture of your husband through those descriptions here, I felt I shared same character. I am ill-tempered too yet fragile. I think you have to acknowledge that everyone has its soft side. Even how ill-tempered a person is a magical punch can change it.
Give him the best that you can be as wife and his everything.It's time to give your shoulder to him and forget if he caused you pain. I think it's part of being wife.
@syoti20 (5292)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Indafth, not all who look tough outside also considered to be tough on the inside. I can witness that to my big brother. He is a really bad tempered and easy to be irritate. But deep in side to his angry/snobbish looks. When you please or want something and you dearly needed it. He will find way to get that for you.
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@Niceprince1 (27)
• Nigeria
6 Jun 11
It is better to be happy but when he is sad u should also understand
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
7 Jun 11
He needs your support and your prayers.
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@celticeagle (169853)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Jun 11
He was probably sad, nervous, tired, upset, scared and all of these would cause him to act differently than usual. It is sad that your husband's dad is sick and your husband probably cares very much about him. Fragile though? That seems really different from the norm for him.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
You need to understand him he is undergoing a period of being worried about his father illness. he would be back to his self when he pass all those things which worried him. all you need to do is to support him during this hard times. you need to help him and pray for the recovery of his father. hope is well now.
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Jun 11
Well now what you want ? the same old one? well I must say you thank to Almighty Allah who turned him into caring person. Try to help him in this difficult situation and make him believe that you are caring him as well. you can Ignore my advice by saying "I am too little to advice" am I?
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@tyjenny84 (33)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
that is a good thing you should be thankful for...i guess he finally realized life is too short to be angry all the time...