WHAT woman want

Indonesia
June 6, 2011 5:04am CST
I give my girlfriend a ring. she don't like. I treat dinner. she don't want. actually what woman want? money, flower, or what?
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@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
Hi.. As you said, she's kind of a silent type.. hmm! Maybe try to be sweet to her more, and maybe that's what she wants! Make her feel she's special and you love her very much!
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• Indonesia
8 Jun 11
Anything ways will I do for her. include, patient to wait her.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
6 Jun 11
Hi denikurniadi, I feel she is shy. I was same like her when my love use to get for me. I dont insult actually, I feel that i shouldn't burden him. Does she talks to you well. Dont always buy gifts, talk to her and make her talk freely. So you will understand whats blocking her mind from being outspoken. May be she is a timid girl. Make her feel comfortable and if she dont like something, please don't try it again. Give her time to express what she expects from you. Love is amazing and real joy is waiting for each other.
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• Indonesia
8 Jun 11
I will waìt her. till she explaint to me. actually what happen with her?
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Maybe your girl friend is not a kind of materialistic. You need to be happy for that because she is a simple person and I'm sure someday you are being happy. That's a kind of person I like the most...because money is not a problem with her...
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
That really great words, friend. Just do it for the sake of love which is forever. Don't go beyond the limit of eternity because you maybe failed when you reach the tip of long lasting relationship...
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• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
hi friend I hope like that. I will try to make her understand that there is a man that love her forever.
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• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
thanks for your support. that's I need now.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
It depends upon each individual. There are women who are materialistic. If your gf doesn't feel happy with all those material things it only means she's not after all those temporary things. I guess your gf wants to feel that she is important and always the first in your priority. Make her feel that way...that's maybe what she wants from you.
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• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
hi friend my girlfriend isn't materialìstic. but WHatever I give her. she don't want. she is just silent. I am confuse.
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@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
6 Jun 11
I do not think women want something different from what men want. When you do not know what he has to resort to other additional skills and excellent communication approach. Of course this includes the situation when each of us and just not in the mood to communicate, leaving it prey to internal struggles (job, school, life is pain, whatever). Each, I say, feel their partner should know when and how to talk to him. And how this approach should be mutual. But as the bottom line, communication is the essence of understanding between two people.
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• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
I always comunicate with her. and there is no problem I think. woman is hard understood.
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@ludyvel04 (311)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
As a woman, I want all attention from my lover and nothing else will make feel valued.
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@mansha (6298)
• India
8 Jun 11
If she is not materialistic try giving her flowers , may be she is not in to dinners and rings. Make sure she is in love with you because not having dinner with you seems a bit odd. Ask her before hand if she would like to have lunch instead of dinner may be night time is not comfortable for her. Just spending time with you without any formalities is all she needs.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
7 Jun 11
One thing that is almost universal with women is they don't feel good about hurting someone. As a result if she really doesn't want anything from you she would do this. What you really need to do is pay close attention to how she treats you in other ways. If you ask her to go out to eat or go on a date is she eager to do that or does she tend to put you off more than not? Most women love to receive gifts from someone the care for. If they do not care for him however and can't bring themselves to say so they will act pretty much this way. The thing that bothers me the most is that she not only will not except these gifts but will not tell you why. You really do need to step back and take a very good look at your relationship with her because it may very well be only one sided. Now is the time to find out because it will hurt a lot more if you find out another way.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
6 Jun 11
I can feel the exasperation in your topic What does she see when she looks into your eyes? What do you see when you look into hers? Is she really the right girl for you if she can't make you happy by appreciating it when you do something to please her? There are many more girls out there my friend
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
hi friend you are right. there is many girl. but I Just love. our relationship has been 4 years. I can't let her go.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
6 Jun 11
Has she always refused your gifts in all of these years? Or is it something new for her not to want them?
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Hi Deni! Could it be that she wants commitment?
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
hi friend, there have beee a commitmen before. so I think that's not the problem.
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@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
7 Jun 11
What do women want?Seems you are answering your own question.If you think she is the right girl for you,then try to be the right guy of her dreams.And you will be so surprised.Good luck!
• Indonesia
7 Jun 11
To know what woman want let's get real closer to her and speak from heart to heart. Sometime woman is hard to understand and become so moody anytime. If the man can give support and deep understanding, the woman won't dissapointed you.
@zazen6 (169)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Hi, Deni! Did you ask her what she wants? Every girl or woman is different, so you can't get an easy answer to your baffling post. Just try to listen to your girlfriend, or, if she's not the talkative kind, be sensitive to her unspoken language, you will get a clue on what she really want. Maybe, she just want your time.
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
Hi zazen, maybe you are right. she want my time. lately I am so busy. many job I must finish.
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• China
6 Jun 11
Hi, actually, what i want to say is that she more need your care and love as your girlfriend, what's more, almost any girl needs the praise sincerely and the trust fully from others, especially her cherishes people, not only on the material, and good luck for you...
• China
6 Jun 11
Do not hope that you could fully understand women, because they could not understand themselves competelly sometimes, but what i am know for certain is that women need in spiritual concern just like they recieve gifts from their loved people...
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
COuld be like that friend. need something but women don't tell to men what they need. hard understanded.
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@smacksman (6053)
6 Jun 11
I hate to say it but maybe what she wants is to be rid of you. Maybe it is just time to move on, sad as it may be to experience. Sometimes a parting of the ways can make her see what a gem she is giving up and come back a new woman.
@Akshay97 (19)
• India
6 Jun 11
Maybe she want only YOU..!!!!!!! nothing more.......