how much the truth matters in a relationship?
By shaileshrm
@shaileshrm (256)
India
June 6, 2011 5:46am CST
friends i have seen many of my friends getting committed to someone with thousands of lies.what i sometime wonder that what is more important in a relationship? whether its the truth or the old saying that" everything is fair in love and war"?
what you people think about this?
regards.
keep mylotting
:D
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3 responses
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
What I think about living a life full of lies won't set us free. I understand that truth may set us free. People may tend to realize that truth hurts but because of that we grow as a better individual. So, I think it is not a big deal if we experienced pain with the lies coz' someday truth will always prevail. :)
@shaileshrm (256)
• India
6 Jun 11
janefatima ,yeah friend i agree. lies may give you happiness for short time but one would be always worried about truth not coming out.which doesnt make that person feel free.
and to enjoy your life entirely with the dear ones i really feel that one has to be very loyal.
@ Niceprince1 ,i know many people feel the same ,they chose the wrong lied way but they dont understand that its just for short time and truth is going to come out one day and that day would be end for them.
@vaibhavbansal (427)
• India
6 Jun 11
truth matters a lot in every relationship. if you really wants to make a relationship life longer than truth become the base of it. i have also seen many relationships which are full of lies but after sometime they all break..
so be true to your yourself and to whom you love.
@shaileshrm (256)
• India
6 Jun 11
yeah i totally agree...one needs to be very loyal to his dear ones because when truth comes up then it hurts both the people.
@angelo315 (232)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
I believe that truth matters in a relationship. Personally, it is always best to follow the old saying of "Honesty is the Best Policy". True love does not have secrets. Honesty in a relationship means that you don't keep things hidden from your love ones. When you hide things from your significant other, you are creating a dishonest relationship. Dishonesty can hurt any type of relationship, especially when the other person finds out about the thing you have hidden. Hiding things in your relationships is just another way of of being dishonest. Honesty in relationship will help all relationships progress and become better. The more compassionately honest you are the more trust that will be built on both sides of the relationship. :)
