people change....
By shaileshrm
@shaileshrm (256)
India
June 6, 2011 6:29am CST
friends you all must have come across such situation where you will feel that the person whom you believed so much has back stabbed you or some how the person has changed.i see many of my friends who used to be different few years ago and now behave different any many new people come in our lives.
sometimes i wonder how do people change so quicky in so short span of time.
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5 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
6 Jun 11
good question/discussion. You are only 19. When u study in a school u are all together. Afterwards demarcation is created based on marks and based on college u join. After completing degree depending on the company and pay u are getting differences happen. Life is full of such incidents. After ten years even ur brother or sister will be a person u cannot access or talk to easily. Money makes all the problems. Wealth, education, status creates these issues. Learn to enjoy.
@shaileshrm (256)
• India
6 Jun 11
ravisian u seem to have experienced this..i totally agree to u that people become different as the time passes.it happens not only to friends but as well as to your family member.i m just hoping that it just wouldnt be bad for me...i would be able to sustain my relationships with my dear ones.
@chinamma (24)
• India
7 Jun 11
people do change iam saying this because i have experienced it.I do a lot to my friends and always help them but when i needed them they were not with me.first they used to be more loyal to me but when we had a fight they just left me.and when i was crying and needed support no one was there for me.this kind of situations show who is real and who is not
@picjim (3002)
• India
6 Jun 11
People change due to the experiences they have undergone.The changes and behaviour only reveals their true nature.I feel it is not worth troubling our minds as to why they have changed.I feel circumstances have only brought out their true nature.Its best we be friendly with those who accept us for what we are and not due to some material benefit or position in life.
@tenrajj (911)
• Bhutan
7 Jun 11
Yea what you say is correct. I also came through same situations. Well i see many people changing with time. They way they talk, they way they behave. With time, every thing changes and so it may be a kind of necessity for people to change the way that they think and the way that they behave. Watching televisions could be one of the causes of the change. Some of friends go to some other countries for studies and when they come back we see lots of changes. That would mean that the particular person has interacted so much with people there and got adopted with their way of life.
Some changes are good and some changes are bad. And if we think carefully we have also changed ourselves with time. We are not like what we have been few years ago. But what matters is whether the changes are positive or negative. We must always step forward and try to change with time if it is to make our living better.
