it's not that easy to get involve into a relationship.
By janefatima
@janefatima (347)
Philippines
June 6, 2011 7:00am CST
To have a soon to be gf/bf is a very romantic one. And it depends how long sparks will last. Some relationship may be successful and some may ended unsuccessful which some may feel pain, some even feel guilty if the other one may commit a mistake. There are ups and downs of having a relationship that may help to both parties grow as a better person. The important part of this you know how to control, to know the limitation and to know hoe to understand how to love each other.
1 response
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
6 Jun 11
Welcome to myLot !Your first question/discussion in mylot? This is the age when u will be thinking only about gf/bf. Once u get employed after degree u will think about other useful things. this is a passing phase. this will last for five to six years. thereafter u will have a family and u will be a changed person.
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Thanks. I have been praying that someday I will become a better individual. Raise a happy family with the grace of our Heavenly Father. I just remember during my college years I had a boyfriend which lasted 6 years but it ended unsuccessful. Now that I am working its hard to deny for the fact that I find it too hard to get involved to another relationship not because I am stuck with my past but because of the busy schedules I have i guess.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
6 Jun 11
Possibly u suffer from a sort of guilt feeling. Forget about that boy. Try to find good in another boy and make genuine friendship with or without the assistance of ur parents and elders. I do not know about the culture in ur country. But believe me, u will meet a person of your choice and this person will be much more a nice person that your previous friend. have a good day.
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I admit that I have the feeling of guilt why it just lasted too bad. It was a very unsuccessful relationship that people doesnt want to happen. I keep on praying to God that I could be able to find the right man for me. I never lose hope that someday I could meet that person. have a good day too.:)
