I love my best (girl) friend

June 6, 2011 1:04pm CST
Hi I am deeply in love with my girl best friend, what can I do, is it worth our friendship? Its not a passing thing I've felt like this a while, if she doesn't feel the same way, would she ever? x
5 responses
• United States
6 Jun 11
This is a hard topic! In one point of view, you need to ask your self, if it is worth the risk of loosing your close friendship you have with her now. (BUT) If you dont try, you will never know how she feels. Being in the "FRIEND ZONE" sucks, when you feel one way, not knowing how she feels. On the other hand though, if she feels as strong as you do about your friendship, she should be there for you even after you bring it to her attention if she does not feel the same way you do!
7 Jun 11
Yeah, thankyou i'll see how it goes but i think your probably right even if it doesn't work out I'm sure we'll stay friends
• United States
7 Jun 11
Well, I hope everything works out for you!
• Philippines
10 Jun 11
Well, if you're both single then that's just easy. If she doesn't feel the same way, then just accept it. Don't force yourself into her. And don't change, maintain the friendship and treat her just the way you used to treat her before. However if she accepts you then just go for it. Good luck.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Love to our best friend is not avoidable. Because we see the qualities in her that we need as lovers...
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
I she's great girl, she should understand your feelings and respect it - once you opened up to her. Whatever her decision/s maybe, respect it also. So that you won't lose the friendship. The greatest foundation of LOVE is FRIENDSHIP (remember that always!).
@tenrajj (911)
• Bhutan
7 Jun 11
There is no law that we should not fall in love with our best friend. Infect I would prefer falling in love with the best friend and marry him or her if possible. Studied has proved that marrying the one from the circle of friends is better than marrying others. You can try to express your feelings to her. But make sure that you don't hurt her while expressing your feeling. Well you may begin like that," I want to say something very important to you but before that I want you to promise me that you will never end our friendship".