I'll comment on you..later

I think there is an unwritten rule to all of us who respond to topics here in MyLot - not to expect to be responded by the discussion starter. Usually I don't expect it either because if you've been here longer, you'll get the idea that it takes a while for one to go back to the discussion he/she started in order to respond to those who commented and to choose the best response mark. However, it's different if the topic is somewhat personal and he/she is trying to ask something for a recent decision that he/she would like to do. I find it weird that a person would type out a discussion asking about what to do on a present situation, then you don't get a feedback (neither one of you does). It's like he/she just got the topic off someone else's discussion and started it without the intention of ever really reading what the responses were. Still, I don't really expect much - most especially if the person is obviously having a great time opening topics (most even have at least 5 topics per day). I am puzzled though when you said that you take a longer time to respond to responses when they have more than five lines. Does the reply need to be longer if the comment was long?

This is a site where one works at one's pace. But being a discussion site one expects users to be there and participate. This is not always possible for various reasons. If one makes a habit of not getting back at all then that user stands to lose as gradually that user will be left alone. But those who are regular and if for some reason they delay getting back it is unethical for anyone to point a finger and in such cases one should ignore those slights and move on.

No problem at all. We all have things to do in our daily lives and it takes up alot of our time. I visit alot of websites daily too plus do my duties off of the computer also.

Chill out Letran. Your friends will always wait for you I am only here at the weekends so that is the only time you will see me. So don't worry about it. We all have our own schedules

no explanations needed friend, we all got a life besides what they do here, remember responding is not an obligation , perhaps just natural to respond to give your counter point of view or a form of courtesy, people have lives, I also have to go thru a lot of things before I can respond or even start a discussion.

Hi latran, I agree its really tough to reply all of the respondents than too in four or five lines.I have been regularly responding to your topics & i observed it that you take time to reply all the respondents may be you remain busy on your offline work as most of the people. I too remain very much busy & surprise how people do that they just reply in few seconds once you post your comments i most of the time don't do that.There is fixed time in which if i get the replies i will comment on hand to hand otherwise it goes pending & will be replied when i will again log in.

Hi there Letran Knight 25! I don't think that anyone should be rushed into doing anything here in Mylot. I never rush anyone here and neither would I like to be rushed. It's okay to take your time in posting comments and even choosing the best response on your discussions. Whenever I post, I don't really expect a comment unless I asked the topic starter a question and I really don't wait for my posts to be chosen as the best response. It's just a nice surprise when that happens.

No reason to explain as there is no time limit to comment back. I for one do not start many at all for the simple reason I get loads of responses and because for me I like to comment back to all, I try not to do so many. But everyone has their way and certainly you at some point do comment, therefore no reason to stress at all as they eventually come in.

hi, thats right we will comment to them later because we have so many things need to do outside that's not here in mylot,but after that working hours for that day i will comment to those topic that mostly i can relate to it.

I think every here also has the same reasons why they post late comments. I think people understand that there is a world outside the computer screen. I guess someone really made you annoyed this morning? Hehehe. Anyway, Happy mylotting!

Good morning Letran! Explanation accepted,lol! That's one big reason friend why I don't post my own discussion everyday,haha! I don't have enough time to reply on my respondents,what more on your side who got lots and lots of responses! Posting 2-3 discussions a week is what I can do but I don't usually respond at once,takes me 2days to completely reply to all of them,oh my! I envy some who can do it at once like Hardworkinggurl,she has many respondents but she can manage to reply at the same day. Maybe she has lots of free time and she is a fast typist,lol! See yah!