Why Do Unmarried Women Easily Fall In Love With Married Men?

You know what when I saw your discussion it made me interested to read about this. I may be single but mind you thats the greatest sin that I ever did to my life having a boyfriend who is already owned by someone else. At first it was just for fun and most probably with the more attention that given to me than to his wife. I also want to have security but I think as time goes there are always realization because now that we are celebrating our 2nd year of this stupid relationship its harder for us to get rid and not to get jealous with the situation we've got. So, one thing that I can give for a piece of advice to those single women is that they should try to think if they can handle things in the future not only trying to consider the present action that they will be doing because as time goes romance, lust, love will gone and sometimes it will end up hurting to both parties even destroying a family.

I have a friend who became involved with a married man. It's true that these married men are sweeter and gentler to the other woman. They pay more attention, they are more thoughtful and sweet, maybe because they know that they can't offer marriage and security anymore to the other woman. Women are too gullible and they tend to fall to these married men because they do tend to pay more attention and are sweeter. They'll make you feel so loved even if at the back of your mind, you know that you can never have that man. That's another thing, I think some single women go for married men because they feel challenged and excited loving someone that they can never have. I'm glad that my friend ended her relationship with that married man and is now married herself with one son. If they continued with that kind of relationship, it would only hurt my friend in the long run. I am married too and I'd hate to think that my husband is having an affair or is in love with another woman. I can't even begin to describe how hurt I would be feeling. Unfortunately, these things happen sometimes and you just have to be ready in case it happens to you. However, no matter how hard it is, women must trust their husbands and love them the best way that they can. I don't understand how some men could have an affair even if they are happily married but I also believe that women should not give their husbands any reason to wander.

i think most women do fall in love with men who are married because women are looking more into a man's security and being married tends to give them the sense of being a person who is able to give security to women...

Maybe it's to do with the security of having a person who can be in a real relationship with someone, but busting someone out of a successful one being daring doesn't seem to be the right way to go about it. I think that loyalty is the most important thing in a relationship, when you love someone truly this doesn't feel like a sacrifice more proof of your love. But without trust no test will pass you with flying colours.

I've known some ladies who are easily attracted or fall for married guys. Actually I asked some them why. They told me that they are thrilled with that kind of relationships and also they believe that married guys know how to handle a relationship very well. They know how to please a woman.

I happen to start a similar discussion to this one. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2497599.aspx There are so many reasons why some girls do it. Some feel they are challenged. Some feel they are secured. Some just fell in love. Some were just fooled. But whatever their reason, it cannot justify the fact that they have destroyed a family. They may got the man they have desired for now, but fate has its way of getting back at them. They might just find themselves being dump in favor of younger, desirable women.

and this unmarried women easily fall in love with married men will become more worst if Divorce Bill is legalized.... these unmarried women only wants to this married man is money, since they believed in "No Money, No Honey" and... MMMMMM or... Matakuting(Feard) Matandang (Old) Mayaman(Rich) Madaling(Soon) (Malokong)Fool) Mamatay(Die)

I really appreciate your topic of discussion. There is no doubt unmarried girls always are the easy prey for married man. Married man has the experience of dealing with girls so they easily flirt them & girls easily get in their lap. But this is not a good thing because girl should think about the woman whom this man is married to. How much agony the wife will have when she will hear of an affair of her husband.This infact is a feeling which a woman can or should understand better.She should understand that she will be responsible for breaking a home. Above all what is surety that if this man is leaving his wife for her will remain loyal to girl also & wont leave her for another woman. These are all the things which should be thought before going into such relationship.