Why white women don't like asian men

China
June 7, 2011 3:13am CST
In china I can always see white men with chinese girls walking in the street.These scenes are very common especially in big cities like shanghai,beijing.But I have never seen white women walk together with chinese men. As I know there are many chinese girls marry foreigners mostly white guys every year in china. I don't feel surprised that asian girls are welcomed by guys all over the world. But to asian men the situation is not very optimistic. Obviously,asian guys are not welcomed by white women even asian women. I'm not a racist. I'm opposed to racial disrimination.I am a asian man but I have to say maybe asian men cannot equal white men in some respects. Maybe asian men are too weak,too short,not "man" enough,not handsome,etc.These are all what I guess.Someone says that aisan men do not have enough confidence, they are not worse than white men. And someone else says that it's because of culture difference. There are many explanations and I dont know which is ture.So I have the question that why white women dont like asian men and hope you can give me the answers.Thank you!
6 responses
yoga23302
@yoga23302 (28)
• Australia
8 Jun 11
You might be right. In my view the western countries llike US or Uk are reacher than asian countries. and many Asian people want to migrate to these countries any way possible. And to get married with a western citizen is the easiest way to get there and have a better life for both. This doesn't related to everyne but many of them.
marco05342
@marco05342 (10)
• China
9 Jun 11
yeah marriage is an easy way for people from developing countries to migrate to development countries. We have to admit it.
investor211
@investor211 (474)
• Mexico
7 Jun 11
hi my friend, im not asian but i have been in asia and i can tell you something, here in america we we like asian because they are cute and slim, and also we like to exchange cultral atitudes, and we can never forget to add financial status, whites most of the time have money, and why not can say money can buy enything, im sure of that
marco05342
@marco05342 (10)
• China
9 Jun 11
yeah,money is an important factor and I forgot that. I heard about that school girls sleep with old man for money.These things are very common in any country I think. In china many native girls marry foreigners not only westerners but also japanese and south koreans. They are asians but they are richer. But I can see more and more japanese girls marry chinese men these years.Japanese men are always considered to be masculist even though they work hard and undertake everything. Compared with japanese men,chinese men seem to be "tender". Someone says japanese women usually do not require much money when marry somebody in japan. Japanese school girls are also "famous" but we cannot say all the japanese girls love money, most of them don't care money much because people have good social welfare in japan. But in china it's different, people don't have such good social welfare,they have to prepare enough money for the days when they are old or for disease.So even though a chinese man marry a japanese woman,he will prefer to live and work in japan than in china.Maybe this point makes chinese girls love money more than japanese girls. We should not blame them for loving money and the government shoud take responsibility.
dreamy1
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
7 Jun 11
I don't think you can make a blanket statement like that. I have lived in Asia and I have seen white women with Asian men so obviously there are some white women who date Asian men. In my experience Asian men were very shy. I'm from the US and we are used to men being more straightforward and if they like us they will come up and talk to us. For example when I went to clubs there the Asian guys would be dance with themselves in a group. . They didn't really come up and talk to a lot of girls and ask them out. If you want to get more white women you need to be a little more aggressive and start talking to them.
samaire
@samaire (154)
• United States
7 Jun 11
That's interesting! Maybe it's true. Jackie Jan is cute but i don't want to date him :)I don't know. I am a white girl. Maybe we used with tall blonds or brunets with blue eyes and asian men are short with dark eyes and for us they talk funny. Most girls like tall big man but you are so skinny than most of white girls. I don't want to feel fat around my men :)You have so tiny girls!Once i bough a dress from a chinese website. On the picture was great but when i try it on me my private parts were outside! I am 1.7m. Maybe the chinese model was 1.5m! I saw a documentary movie for China. The kids they didn't play! They just study.All day. Then when they grow up they just work. Work work work!!!! No fun! I have never seen asian man on the beach. Maybe we think that asian men are just work or comics.
jeanneyvonne
@jeanneyvonne (5501)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
It's a sort of power play and cultural identity. Most white men prefer Asian women becuase they are taught to be more docile, more obedient and exotic (among other more feminine traits). So in a cultural and gender sense, the white man is two times 'higher' than an Asian women. In the case of a white woman and an Asian man, I think that there will be a powwer conflict. White women are independent, headstrong and other traits present in the Western culture. They are used to handling power and assert some self-worth and entitled to some privileges. If compared that to the mentality of an Asian man (which is bound to be like a white man), there will clashes and collisions. Since in a sense, an Asian Man and a White women are on equal footing. However, this is not sometimes the case. there are many marriages that comprises an Asian man and a White woman. It's case to case basis.
rhannealmoite
@rhannealmoite (338)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
I think western Woman prefer bulky and taller guys than cute Asians like us. Well it also makes me wonder why. I also hope we will find the answer through this discussion.